Doms keep telling us that they’re not mind-readers, so we have to communicate. But it’s hard! Especially when it’s something they might not want to hear.
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I hope that these few tips will begin to open your mind and eventually your mouth to some of the hottest sex you can have when you just verbalize.
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When you first enter the more public BDSM community one of the largest catch phrases you will here is SSC, also known as Safe, Sane and Consensual. It is a security blanket approach to safety when playing and negotiation of play. As a submissive, you have a lot of responsibility to keeping yourself safe and well.
Read The Article | Find SimilarToday's task is to learn an appropriate pose to take when apologizing for wrong-doing.
Read The Article | Find SimilarIf you've had a difficult time, or are struggling, I welcome you to write about it for Submissive Guide. Share with us your difficulties; we'll understand and be there for you.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThe Slave Journal is a log of command, instructions, and requests from the Dominant. When they ask for you to do something, you write it down. Things like new rules, mention that they prefer Charmin toilet paper or that they love the red dress you wore the other night.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI think there are a couple of good reasons people strive for perfection, but what we tend to forget is that if we are constantly doing that we can never truly enjoy where we are at any point.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarThere's a lot you can do to learn about BDSM and what your limits might be.
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