Your New Home
Submissive Guide is a community where submissive education, mentoring, self-taught skills training, and fundamental BDSM exploration are in focus. We are dedicated to helping all submissives, no matter how they identify and understand themselves and the submission or service they wish to provide in a consensual power exchange relationship.
We Help Build Healthy D/s Dynamics
To provide education for submissives and your partners that help you live healthy consensual D/s dynamics.
We Provide BDSM Tips You Can Use
To dispel BDSM myths and misinformation by offering intelligent, real-world examples and first-hand experience.
We Help You Find Your Tribe
To build a supportive community with a wide variety of D/s experiences and dynamics.
Who Am I?
My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time slave in an M/s relationship.
I started blogging when I was exploring D/s online in 2003. I used it primarily to organize my thoughts and, hopefully, find people who understood what I was thinking at the time. I needed advice, mentors, and helping hands.
Since then I have had a personal blog in several different places. I’ve developed opinions and thoughts on many topics within the the D/s dynamic and BDSM. I don’t consider myself to be an expert at anything at all but I do think that I’ve grown to enjoy sharing and writing about all the different themes that submission and service provide me.
As my blog grew in popularity I realized that I had a commodity that people could use. My insights and words. More than just the personal meandering thoughts I tend to gather on my blog, but more thoughtful help for submissives that are seeking advice, mentorship and someone who understands.
From Online, Long-Distance and Casual to Real-Life, Full-time Submission and Finally Slavery
In 2012 our relationship blossomed to a mono-poly (I’m monogamous, KM is not) triad so I am learning poly dynamics as well.
So, if you feel that I won’t understand where you are coming from, just try me. I might surprise you!
Why Submissive Guide?
I started this site in January of 2009 because I wanted to help others out there to understand the feelings and experiences that are new and sometimes puzzling. I’d like to be a mentor to novice submissives, develop a learning program of sorts and give you tips and information on how you can improve your personal submission with or without a partner. I’ll be regularly adding essays, reviews and perhaps a video or podcast or two.
I hope you enjoy the site.
Contributions and Sharing
I am also open to being a guest blogger on your site. If you would like me to write something for your blog or website, please contact me. I would be happy to contribute to your site as long as I can have a short promotion of mine in return.