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How to Share Feedback as a Submissive: Respectful and Honest Communication with Your Dominant
Struggling to speak up when something feels off in your dynamic? This article offers real talk and practical tips for submissives who want to give feedback to their Dominant without stepping out of their role.
When Submissives Go Wild: Sub Frenzy
Submissive Frenzy, or “sub frenzy,” is an intense psychological state where submissive desires feel overwhelming and urgent. It can cloud judgment, leading to risky decisions and emotional turmoil. Understanding its causes and signs—like desperation for connection, impaired judgment, and risky behavior—can help you navigate it safely. Read more here!
Solo-Coaching: Nurture a Positive Point of View
Cultivating a positive mindset is essential for every submissive’s journey. Learn how to reframe negative thoughts, practice self-care, and embrace self-compassion to strengthen your submission and personal growth. Discover practical tools to shift your perspective and build confidence in yourself and your dynamic.
The Transformative Benefits of Journaling for Submissives
As submissives, we constantly learn and explore ourselves and the activities that bring us closer to our inner peace. We question our thoughts, ask deep questions, and look for answers. It’s part of what makes us so amazing, right? We are fueled by the passion to submit and serve. While exploring desires, setting boundaries, and
Drowning in Exhaustion: Navigating Submissive Burnout
Imagine being submerged underwater, the pressure building in your ears, the air squeezing out of your lungs, and the darkness closing around you. It’s a terrifying sensation that can leave you feeling helpless and desperate for a lifeline. The experience of submissive burnout is similar – you feel like you’re drowning in expectations, responsibilities, or
From Patience to Kindness: The Virtuous Path of Submission
Exploring new perspectives within the intimate world of BDSM dynamics can lead to a richer and more fulfilling experience. Today, I propose we embark on a unique journey that intertwines submission with the concept of the Seven Heavenly Virtues. We’ll delve into the history of these virtues, uncovering their origins and significance, and then consider
Active Submission – Make Yourself Available to Your Dominant
Submission is more than permission—it’s an active role in D/s relationships. Learn how to make yourself available to your Dominant and foster a deeper, more open power exchange.
