Submissive Guide Logo

11 Questions To Ask Your Partner Who Is Interested In Kink


Eleven questions that need to be asked to help you form your own thoughts and help you learn about kink so that you can be receptive to your kinky partner!

Get More Info

365 Days of Submission


365 thought-provoking journaling prompts and inspirational quotes to explore the most important areas of your life, from identity, past experiences, and relationships to challenges, ambitions, and the future.

Get More Info

A Sexy Submissive's Countdown to Christmas


A sexy, naughty countdown to Christmas for kinky submissives, both single and with partners. Every day, we'll have a suggestion that gets you in touch with your sexuality, your desires in sexual submission and the naughty things you can do with and without a partner this holiday season.

Get More Info

A Submissive’s Guide to Your Wants and Needs


Let me help you distinguish between wants and needs and gain greater clarity regarding what your needs are. Then, I’ll give you the tools to talk about them with your partner for a more successful and fulfilling relationship.

Get More Info

BDSM With Kids In The Home


D/s with Kids in the Home is a collection of articles from the site about being a parent and a kinky person.

Get More Info

Conquer Me Companion


Conquer Me by Kacie Cunningham is one of the best and my personal favorite book for explaining the emotional and mental facets of being submissive in today’s world. I recommend it to every submissive that asks me for advice and you too can learn why I find this book to be one of the best personal help books available for submissives.

Get More Info

Creating A Training Resume


With this handbook you will be given the directions and assistance for beginning to record your own submissive journey in words and logs that will follow you through your life. I will provide you with the best tools and worksheets available to help you learn the value of the things you experience and the training you undergo.

Get More Info

Entering The BDSM Community


Kayla Lords’ excellent series about Entering the BDSM and D/s communities! You’ll learn what your first munch or party might be like, what to expect as far as rules and dress and where to begin your search for your own community!

Get More Info

Exploring Anal Pleasures: A Submissive's Guide to Anal Play and Training


Discover the art of anal play to unlock new dimensions of pleasure and vulnerability within the context of BDSM and power dynamics.

Exploring Anal Pleasures tears down the fears and misconceptions about anal play, teaches you how to do a cleansing anal douche, and begins to explore all the facets of anal play, from manual stimulation and butt plugs to sex, and more!

Are you ready to experience new dimensions of pleasure with anal play and training?

Get More Info

First Aid Quick Reference


Print this Quick Reference and put it in your toybag. You never know when an emergency may happen and you’ll want to know what to do. This has tips on how to handle sudden illness and injury as well as when to call for medical professionals!

Get More Info

Guide To Your First Munch


There is one huge hurdle that can strike fear into you like nothing else can. You’ve been safe behind your computer, but the next step is clear. You need to meet people face to face. You will eventually need to go to a munch.

Get More Info

How To Write Your Own Submissive Affirmations


This report shows you how to write affirmations and use them to improve and better your life. Affirmations are an important part of introspection and personal growth so take some time to check this report out and see how it can help you!

Get More Info