How You Can Help Your Partner Become More Dominant

I've always been the strongest one in my relationships. He isn't weak, but very calm and he has always set me "free"...too much, if I have to say the truth. I hope it makes sense...he's understanding, we are talking about it a lot...but I need some extra advice. I don't want to confuse him even more...

What are Dress Protocols?

A dress protocol is established by a Dominant as the way a submissive is to present themselves for any specific situation. These can be basic grooming habits to very precise details to what to wear to dinner or bed. A lot of times these are the first rules established in a relationship. These can start out as directions for when and what to keep shaved, how to care for your hair, or if you can wear panties or not.

How a Personal Protocol Can Aide Your Service

The first time I heard the word protocol when introduced to BDSM it was some special ritualized order of things that can happen in a relationship. It was an unspoken word when I was single. You didn't learn about protocol and no one I knew used a protocol to govern their own development and personal growth.

I'd like to change that. A personal protocol can bring you ahead of the game, no matter where you are in your submissive journey. In this article I'd like to give you a working definition of a personal protocol, how you can develop one whether you are single or in a relationship and what it can do for you.

Tearing Down the Green-Eyed Monster - Handling Jealousy

Most confuse jealousy and envy. I know I've been bitten a few times by jealousy but thankfully I worked through them and realized that there was nothing to worry about. I've conquered jealousy and you can too. Today we'll talk about what jealousy is, compare it to envy and then figure out some tips on combating jealousy.

Single in the Scene Part III: The Slave Resume

The slave resume is a snapshot of you - the services you thrive in, something you'd like to learn, S&M experiences/desires, interests, hobbies, in other words, you're sharing the highlights of yourself that you desire to find a compatible match for.

Dominant Is Asking for More Time than I Can Give

I hate lying to him but I don't feel like I had a choice. I don't know what to do.

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Digitally Store User Manuals Using Evernote or Cloud Storage

Reduce your paper clutter by turning Evernote into your digital notes system that is useful for all of your organization needs. This time, we talk about saving your manuals to equipment so you don't have to keep the paper version.

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Creating a Stockpile - A Buffer For Any Size Home

You will save money, stress and help supply your home during lean times with a stockpile, no matter the size of your home.

Channeling Guilt with Housework

I think that housework is a good way to channel any overwhelming emotion – in my case guilt or sadness

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 10: Ways to Personalize Your Physical Journal

Physical journals allow you to open up your creativity and arts and crafts. Here are some ideas you can use to add personality to your notebook.