This series is written from the perspective that being single in the Lifestyle affords one the opportunity to do some soul-searching, learning, and defining in order to be better equipped to transition into a suitable and desirable relationship in due time. Read - Part I: Boundaries and Part II: Service.
Yeeees - there is a such thing as a slave or service resume! I've decided to share my own, in part, to help you get a feel for what one looks like. The full of my slave resume is no more than two pages long and it includes my full location, email, phone number, and my favorite photo of myself. The slave resume is a snapshot of you - the services you thrive in, something you'd like to learn, S&M experiences/desires, interests, hobbies, in other words, you're sharing the highlights of yourself that you desire to find a compatible match for.
And with no further delay, I present an abbreviated version of my resume:
I require a Master/Daddy who desires to own and fully possess a dedicated, determined, and affectionate slave/baby-girl.
I am a service-oriented slave/baby-girl with a healthy appreciation for a well-kept home that reflects the attributes of love, peace, and joy. I am meticulous in my housekeeping duties, my favorites being vacuuming, laundry service, and organizing closet spaces and drawers. I am familiar with using a sewing machine; I can repair minor damage to clothes and also create simple curtains, table clothes, napkins, and other decorative items. One of my greatest joys in domestic service is cooking solid meals and on occasion, baking sweet treats. I specialize in creating healthy all-natural meals that are pleasing to the palette and nourishing to the body. Special diet meals I am capable of preparing are low sodium, gluten-free, and raw. Additional skills include silver, brass, and leather care.
I am enthusiastic about providing personal assistant duties such as making travel arrangements; setting appointments; performing research; proofreading; and scheduling for both business and personal purposes. Personal grooming skills include clothing care and maintenance; dressing; manicure; pedicure; bathing and also relaxation massage and energy work via Reiki.
I have an extensive background in the performing and visual arts and hold an M.A. in Art History, though I consider myself a culturist, I am an art historian by training. A copy of my CV and professional résumés are available upon request.
BDSM & Fetish Experience:
I have extensive experience with impact play such as flogging, caning, body punching, and crops. I have a keen interest in rope bondage specifically but very little experience with it.
Health & Limits: (private)
Skills, Hobbies, & Interests:
Cooking: International meals, Southern, and vegetarian; always expanding my knowledge base. Maintenance: Home – caulking, minor painting projects, and inspecting repairs. Automotive – basic maintenance of fluids, wiper blade change, tire pressure, and interior care Physical Activity: Belly dance is my current learning interest. I have a gym membership that I enjoy using and also complete home workouts. Music: I have eclectic taste in music, not favoring one genre over another. (provide examples) Culture: My passion for learning of other cultures outside of my own has taken me abroad to experience other cultures first hand. Even the subcultures of America fascinate me.
The slave resume, in a manner of speaking, is the first step in being transparent with a potential Owner. It does take courage to open up, but you are applying for a very serious position in this person's life! Those who are definitely passionate about and committed to this way of life will appreciate such openness and professionalism (yes!). On one hand the potential gets this brief overview of you, and on the other hand, you're able to assess your own skill set and desires by undergoing this process. This was one of the best things I've ever done to help me hone in on what I'm looking for and what I bring to the table. Of course, it's not an exhaustive list of my skills, likes, capabilities, and desires, it's not meant to be. But it's definitely something that provides a foundation and an opportunity to move forward, possibly taking the next step.
I encourage you to take some time to go through this process. I'm sure you'll find it quite rewarding, to say the least.
Lots of love, Blyss