An opinionated review of the book, M/s for the Rest of Us by KE Enzweiler.
Read The Review | Find SimilarHow do you handle your serious mood swings or when something just “sets you off”?
Read The Article | Find Similar"To please him." Sure it's a selfless response, but is it always the best answer and perhaps not the most honest? I'm going to talk about why I think we need to reflect on the question more before we consider the auto-response to be the true and valid one for our personal submission.
Read The Article | Find SimilarToday I spent some time digging into the purchases of BDSM books and have compiled the following breakdown of best selling books and some odds and ends that surprised us.
Read The Article | Find SimilarErotic spanking. It is probably the most common kinky play activity and is done in a lot of relationships that may know nothing about kink at all to those who are extremely kinky. It’s just a hot thing to do during sex. I was being spanked long before I entered the scene. I hope that I never stop being spanked.
Read The Article | Find SimilarIt's far harder to serve a self-sufficient Dominant because they want to do everything themselves. It is not impossible though.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarIt seems that no matter how long you've been doing this thing we call submission, there are times of rebellion, confusion, frustration and just not getting it right.
Read The Article | Find SimilarDon't be afraid to speak up when you need or want something different. You never really stop negotiating in D/s.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThe underlying response to this question is simple, but the reason the person asked it is because it doesn't feel simple to them. Give the person compassion, not snark.
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