We’re inspired to accomplish something, but before we can do the work, we need to break it down into smaller actionable steps. Tiny pieces of steps that we can easily understand and accomplish. It’s far easier to manage a bigger goal when it’s broken down into manageable bite-sized pieces than one that isn’t.
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As a submissive, one of the first things you will be asked by almost every Dom/me is: what are your limits? You will encounter this sometimes in chat, in play, and when negotiating a relationship with a new Dom/me. If you are playing with a new Dom/me and aren’t asked this question, my advice is not to play with the person. I have heard Dom/mes say that They don’t play with safe words or limits because They know what They are doing. How can a Dom/me know if you have health issues or triggers or are just plain terrified of something unless you tell them?
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The submissive or slave mindset often sought after by novice submissives or those changing the form of their dynamic to 24/7 relationships, doesn't exist.
Read The Article | Find SimilarOverall it has been a positive change, even if it wasn't planned to happen right now. We are rolling with the change, making it work for us and honestly, are very happy with how things are developing for us. Staying-at-home is work, but work that I can feel good about because it is improving our personal life and enhancing our dynamic.
Read The Article | Find SimilarEveryone I've talked to says they enjoy a bit of naughty texting here and there. Others like to employ the camera phone for proof that a kinky deed was carried out or for some semi-private exhibitionism. It can be employed for a training tool or a way to stir desires in anticipation for the return to each other.
Read The Article | Find SimilarIt is within your power to change your beliefs. As soon as a negative thought shows itself it is your job to find evidence to disprove it. It will really help if you write this evidence down.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI hope I always fear You. I hope You always keep me one step away from being comfortable and complacent.
Read The Article | Find SimilarIt is very difficult to lead somebody. Exponentially so when she answers to another.
Read The Article | Find SimilarBecoming submissive does not mean you stop being who you are now. All of my advice has always been that you should be you, just a better you.
Read The Article | Find SimilarWhat does it mean to hit the wall? Let's explore how deep the rabbit hole goes and become more aware of our own limits during play.
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