2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions - Day 2: Standing at Attention

One of the most common ways you can present yourself as submissive to a Dominant is by the way you stand. You may do it now even though you don't have any specific rules as to how to stand. Pay attention next time you are standing by your Dominant.

Setting Realistic Goals to Realize Your Dreams

Every goal we want to set requires three things to have a chance at working. We need the right time in our lives, planning and follow through. Lack just one of these things and we will not reach those dreams of ours.

So, you may be wondering why I'm covering this topic on a submissive newsletter. Every day I set goals for myself; be more obedient, remember to reply to requests and commands appropriately, research a certain topic to better understand it, practice my stretching so that I can be more flexible, etc. All of these things are to improve my submission. Hopefully you are setting small goals for yourself too. At the end of this essay, I'd like to challenge you to set a few goals for yourself and your submission. Let's see some wonderful changes in you!

The Importance of Taking Your Time Exploring Submission Before Starting a Relationship

At one time or another we all tend to rashly jump into a D/s relationship without really knowing the Dominant that we are surrendering to.

Is it Really a Bad Thing to be a Selfish Submissive?

I thought by not being selfish, I was going to be a better slave and I found out the hard way, that wasn’t true. You have to be selfish once and awhile to take care of yourself and to meet your own needs.

I'm Confused. He Wants to "Just Be Friends" While Ex is Visiting

Last week, he wanted to back off and just be friends. An ex is supposedly moving in with him temporarily and he doesn't want to have an outside personal life and phone calls at the same time. I'm confused!

When A Submissive Suffers Knee Pain: Kneeling and Helpful Suggestions

What tips do you give this larger person about kneeling?

Learn to Speak Up and Speak Out: Empowering Yourself to Have a Voice

But asking for what I want and raising concerns to him is topping from the bottom! No, no it's not. You do, in fact, have to tell them what you are thinking and feeling.

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 23 - Journal Prompts: Using Them Effectively to Improve Your Life

What is the difference between a good journal prompt and a bad one? Learn how you too can use journal prompts to better your life and help you grow in submission.