Sometimes, failing becomes debilitating. As a submissive, we will make mistakes, and how we deal with those mistakes will show us if we intend to grow or flounder. You aren't defined by your mistakes, but by your effort. Keep trying; it's in the number of times you were willing to try that you succeed.
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Writing a letter to your future self is a common journaling practice to help you see how happy you are in the present moment, but the writing a letter to your past self is equally helpful.
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One of the more daunting prospects as a single kinky person or someone who is open to casual play is approaching others at a play party with whom you might be interested playing. It’s often called pick up play because you are simply trying to pick someone up for the purpose of play. Whether you are a top or a bottom, the cold approach is scary. But there is help!
Read The Article | Find SimilarOne of the hidden jewels on this site is an e-Zine that ran on Yahoo Groups back when I first started exploring submission. It has since stopped production but the articles it contained are still valuable and worth a read so I thought I ‘d bring them back to the forefront. They’ve been archived here with the editor’s permission since the site was first created but I don’t think many of you know just how wonderful they are. I encourage you to check them out!
Read The Series | Find SimilarI consider this book one that any s-type should pick up. It’s great to see a male’s perspective on what it means to be a slave.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarI’ve read a lot about what it’s like to be a submissive without a Dominant. I never really thought I’d find myself here, but here I am.
Read The Article | Find SimilarJust because there’s a waiting period between the request and the final answer doesn’t mean that you simply do nothing. Let your little slave light radiate as it gets stronger/brighter!
Read The Article | Find SimilarI want some attention to just an acknowledgment that he knows I exist. Or is wanting that out of line with being submissive?
Read The Article | Find SimilarThe proper apology is an art, it really is. Take it upon yourself to correct your Dominant’s displeasure with an apology.
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