The Importance of Journaling Your Submission

There are several reasons why you would want to start up a blog or journal. They can be very personal or have every opportunity to be open with others. Perhaps you need advice or exposure to help you through your journey. The following methods can help you get your feet off the ground.

How a Personal Protocol Can Aide Your Service

The first time I heard the word protocol when introduced to BDSM it was some special ritualized order of things that can happen in a relationship. It was an unspoken word when I was single. You didn't learn about protocol and no one I knew used a protocol to govern their own development and personal growth.

I'd like to change that. A personal protocol can bring you ahead of the game, no matter where you are in your submissive journey. In this article I'd like to give you a working definition of a personal protocol, how you can develop one whether you are single or in a relationship and what it can do for you.

Lessons in Submissive Speech 1: Addressing Individuals

In a BDSM context, it’s more common to have to learn how to address someone than in a non-scene situation.

I'm a Shy Web Cam Model, Can That Be Detrimental to Finding a Dominant?

They don't like my cam modeling, they don't like that I am shy and they are surprised when I admit I am a virgin. Am I looking in the wrong places?

Why A Punishment Dynamic May be Just What You Need

Thinking about your current situation and how you manage your life right now, do you think you would benefit from a punishment dynamic?

Why That Dominant You Found Online Just Disappeared After a Short Time

I'm going to present a short list of reasons why this person fit so perfectly into your life and then vanished without a second glance.

So You Want to Share Your Kink with Your Vanilla Partner - What You Need to Know

I want my partner to be Dominant/submissive but I’m afraid they’ll judge me or leave me if I tell them.

What Is The Expectation of Communication in an Online D/s Relationship?

What is your view concerning the care, direction, and contact of Dominants w/their subs?

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 4: What Can a Journal Do for My Submissive Development?

Let's do an activity to figure out how a personal journal can help you in your submissive development.

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 12: So You Want an Adult Online Journal (Blog)

Making the decision to have an online journal means knowing where you can host adult content and what you need from a blog provider. Let me help you decide on the one that will work for you.