The core of BDSM is consent. No one will disagree with this. We are all aware, hopefully, that abuse is not consensual. If you feel that what is going on is ‘not right’ then you certainly should investigate if it is abuse or not. Some of what you may feel could not be abuse at all, but it’s good to know for sure. Learn how you can see the differences for yourself.
Read The Series | Find SimilarIf you intend to venture into play on a casual level or at play parties and clubs as a single submissive you need to arrive prepared for play. This includes having some of your own toys so that you don't rely on Dominants being gracious enough to use their toys on you.
Read The Article | Find SimilarA common tool for Dominants in their punishment arsenal is removal. You can be removed from the activity and sent to a time out area. For me, that's the kitchen. Ugh. I hate when I'm banished there.
Read The Article | Find SimilarMy family found out that I'm into BDSM/submissive and they are freaking out, what do I do?
Read The Article | Find SimilarTrust is a big factor in all relationships. I would even go as far to say that trust is an even bigger factor in D/s and M/s relationships than most others, but I could be wrong. How do you know when you really trust someone?
Read The Article | Find SimilarHow much to say to their Dominant? When to say it? Can they say anything? What if s/he thinks I'm rude? Would it be better to not say anything? What is appropriate?
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Read The Article | Find SimilarBecoming submissive does not mean you stop being who you are now. All of my advice has always been that you should be you, just a better you.
Read The Article | Find SimilarYes, you can be a parent and a kinkster at the same time. Let’s debunk some of the things people believe about why you can’t be both.
Read The Article | Find SimilarSometimes you can feel so disconnected with your submission that you begin to question who you are. Here's my meditation on my personal struggle.
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