The first of three contract examples from Mrs. Darling. This one is from her book, retelling her own submissive discovery tale, Darling Discovered. Feel free to use this contract as a template for what will or will not work for your relationship.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThe word 'training' is a stumbling block for many novices and experienced submissives alike. The reason for this is that so many define training as the organized learning of behavior and activities in structured sessions or steps and that once complete, your training is complete. Let's dispel that myth right now. Submissive and slave training is not set up this way. It is far far different.
Read The Article | Find SimilarWhat I'm about to lay out for you is not the only way these terms can be described but it is a good measure for the novice and open to your interpretation. No one way to serve is better than another in this list. Remember that not matter where we are on the mountainous journey, the goal is the same. Surrender.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long term goals and a focus. I feel it will bring about change in me that perhaps I can’t see yet. I thought I would share it here so that you can perhaps get some ideas for developing your own code of ethics.
Read The Article | Find SimilarQuestion is can you explain why she might throw up like that and what was going on for her - she is fine the next day and wanting to do it again -
Read The Article | Find SimilarI have genital herpes, and it deters most people. Do you have any tips for a young woman looking for a group of like-minded kinksters?
Read The Article | Find SimilarWe feel superior to our vanilla counterparts at times. But, in truth, D/s relationships are no better or worse than vanilla ones.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarThe holiday season is hard. So hard sometimes.
Read The Article | Find SimilarD/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from February 2005. Topics include Serving while Sick, Bedtime Rituals, Proper Manners, and more! Available in PDF format for free download.
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