Over on Underhishand.com, kaya asked about submission and what qualifies it as submission. She asked, "if you are not expected to do things that you don't like, can it be submission?" Can activities that you would do normally become submission just by someone telling you to do them, or being directed to perform them?
Read The Article | Find SimilarDo you need formal training? Sometimes that may be the only way it will work, but in most cases there is no need for structured time to learn a new behavior - it just comes with practice and education. Embrace that your life is continuously about study and practice.
Read The Article | Find SimilarBedroom BDSM is the most common form of BDSM relationship there is. Let's talk about how to make your bedroom only BDSM relationship special.
Read The Article | Find SimilarAs a masochist I enjoy pain for the sake of pain. I don’t always want to escape from it; rarely do I enjoy sub space because it separates me from the pain. I want to feel it, embrace it and hold it close. I've learned a few important skills that push those pain boundaries and bring me further into a sadist’s grasp. The most valuable of those skills is visualization.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI hope I always fear You. I hope You always keep me one step away from being comfortable and complacent.
Read The Article | Find SimilarMeet Oxytocin, the human bonding hormone, and natural relationship superglue.
Read The Article | Find SimilarS&M became an almost therapeutic aspect of our relationship.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI learned a few lessons and truths that every submissive should keep in mind when your Dominant is under great strain. Here's what you can do to help your own Dominant through grief.
Read The Article | Find SimilarBe mindful of the information you know about someone else that's kinky. Sometimes, things can seem so very innocuous that information can ‘slip’ out casually – we may innocently drop in the ears of others. The fact is they either teeter on outing someone or can flat-out out someone.
Read The Article | Find SimilarSome great tips for getting started searching for a compatible partner when BDSM is a need in your life.
Read The Article | Find Similar