BDSM checklists all live under different names. You can call them limit lists, negotiation lists, negotiation checklists and perhaps ones I've never heard. They are all based on a similar idea. If you make a list of the things you enjoy or don't enjoy you can easily share them with the person you want to play with to find out if you can build a scene that will satisfy both of your needs and desires.
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Why did we get stuck on sting and thud as the only two possibilities to describe what we like in pain play anyway? I don’t think we’ve expanded the types of play activities that much in recent years to not know of other sensations than stingy and thuddy to describe them.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThis book has it all. It talks about breaking open your shell, talking dirty, exhibitionism, voyeurism and dressing up to show off. I can't stop singing it's praises - I loved it. I'm certain that you will too.
Read The Review | Find SimilarDiscovering your submissive nature isn't always a sudden process. For many people it takes some soul searching to see that you may enjoy being a people-pleaser or that when someone asks you to do something you happily do it without a second thought. For others it takes some social reprogramming to allow your full nature to come out.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThe inspiration for today comes from one of my favorite stories, The Velveteen Rabbit.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarToday I spent some time digging into the purchases of BDSM books and have compiled the following breakdown of best selling books and some odds and ends that surprised us.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThe first meeting with the person that you’ve begun to build an emotional bond with can be a pretty daunting prospect. Here are a couple of tips and suggestions that will help you during your planning process and throughout your time together.
Read The Article | Find SimilarAll forms of submission are unique and personal expressions of your best self. You can take lessons and go through training to learn how to be a better you.
Read The Article | Find SimilarA Dominant can have a variety of titles. Which one will you pick? We have a small list of common and not so common names you could use for your Dominant. Check out the list and find the one that feels the best to you or use it to inspire your own ideas for Dominant titles!
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