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LaneyDoll

Laney is an ultra-girly FemDoll from Alabama who has been an active participant in the BDSM community for three and a half years. She is the Special Events Coordinator for The Red Chair in Birmingham and is a greeter on FetLife. She recently changed her lifestyle label from "bottom" to "FemDoll" and is exploring the Leather side of this world with her submissive pup. You may find her on FetLife as LeatherBloodDoll.
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12 Table Manners You SHOULD Know

Bad manners or exceptional manners will ALWAYS get attention while acceptable ones may go unnoticed.

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22 Deal Breakers that May Be Preventing A Dominant from Approaching You

I realized that I had often heard those complaints/observations-and from people who truly seemed like they would be a great catch. Then I started to think more about it and wondered if they (like all of us) had displayed behaviors that others would declare to be a “deal breaker.”

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Do You Make These Mistakes? Avoid Outing a Fellow BDSM Lifestyler

There is one rule that breaking it is considered a cardinal sin in the world of BDSM-outing a fellow lifestyler. Doing such can have life changing effects on their vanilla life and the kinky life of the person who does the outing.

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Dressing the Part - What to Wear at BDSM Community Functions

For new people and established ones alike, deciding what to wear to an event can be an adventure in fun, in stress or in dread. But even someone who loves to get dressed to go out can face moments of uncertainty when it comes to planning an outfit for the evening.

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Have a BDSM Community Spirit You Can Be Proud Of

If you are like me, you give back. I have always believed that we should support those who support us; that we should support our passions.

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How To Overcome The Outside Forces That Stress Us

You will find these annoyances everywhere; anything outside of the relationship that causes undue tension within a pairing, they can be vanilla or lifestyle, major or minor issues, overt or subtle.

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Labels - Yet Another "L" Word

I have a love/hate relationship with labels. Our lifestyle labels are no different.

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Laney's Top Ten Personal Hygiene Reminders

There are a lot of times that things are so obvious you think "surely no one has to be reminded." However, if you spend any amount of time around people (vanilla, lifestyle, strangers etc) you will certainly notice that "yes, sometimes someone needs to be reminded."

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Mentorships - What to Do Before the Process Begins

Like all relationships, the mentoring one is not one to be entered into lightly - not because things have to be intense but because they could be. The main thing about a mentorship is that everyone is on the same page about expectations and that the lines of communication remain open. With that in mind, there are a few things to consider when seeking a mentor.

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