Exploring submission play can involve intense sensation. Subspace is a mental and physical response to the high levels of endorphins produced during play. Described as similar to a runner’s high this is a good feeling and one to be enjoyed if you ever get there.
Read The Series | Find SimilarWhile I do plan to keep my copy of The Loving Dominant, I would have liked to have seen more attention paid to the “how” and “what” of expressing dominance in a loving way and avoiding that slippery slope into selfishness and abuse.
Read The Review | Find SimilarSome of the taboos that are discussed, other than the ones I named above are scat/golden showers(human toilet), rape play, age play, and the rest, you can find that out for yourself when you read the book.
Read The Review | Find SimilarIf you are someone who would rather not use animal products, finding BDSM gear of any sort that gives you the same feel as leather but is conscious of your choices is difficult at best. The Stockroom now has vegan bondage gear and I got a chance to try it out!
Read The Review | Find Similar"Consensual rape." Quite an oxymoron, I suppose. Rape, by definition, is sexual intercourse in which one party is unwilling and unwanting of the attention and act. A consensual act is something quite contrary to that initial concept of rape. A consensual act is one in which all parties are in agreement as to the parameters, activities, and boundaries of said act. How then, does the term "consensual rape" have any validity at all?
Read The Article | Find SimilarI think there are a few characteristics that may exist in common, a lot of which are often found in a good 'normal' relationship too!
Read The Article | Find SimilarWhether you are preparing for a scene or well into aftercare it's always handy to have tools and resources at hand that can help you through all the stages of the play time many of us adore. I've gathered a list of the articles and essays on this site that are related to scene care and aftercare into one list.
Read The Article | Find SimilarMany male subs portray themselves through their own words that they are selfish in that they do not actually care what a potential dominant partner wants or needs.
Read The Article | Find SimilarAs in most things, the meaning of consent is far from simple.
Read The Article | Find SimilarWhat does it mean to hit the wall? Let's explore how deep the rabbit hole goes and become more aware of our own limits during play.
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