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Moving from Face-to-Face to Long-Distance Relationship

Full Question: How would I go about transitioning from face-to-face to LDR D/s relationship? We’re going to different Universities. Answer:  Long-Distance Relationships are quite different from regular relationships and they are not easy to handle but they can be challenging and a lot of fun too. It’s a new way of living life altogether! Researching […]

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My Dom disappoints me sometimes….how can I open up to him about it?

Question: My Dom disappoints me sometimes….how can I open up to him about it?  Answer: It can be really hard to confront your Dominant when they’ve disappointed you in some way. As submissives, we can feel that raising concerns about our Dominant’s behavior isn’t allowed or at the very least, isn’t submissive-like. But in all

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Can a little be a slave?

Full Question: Can a little be a slave? How would this dynamic look different from a “normal” m/s dynamic? How would it look the same? Answer: Yes! This answer is for any submissive role, so if you aren’t a little or a slave you will hopefully learn a bit more about roles in BDSM.  Roles

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How can I regulate my anxiety, so I don’t burden my Dominant?

Question: As someone with anxiety, what are some good ways I can try to emotionally regulate myself when having strong feelings, so I don’t have to burden my Dominant with them all the time? Answer: According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA), over 40 million people have anxiety in the US. That’s

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Is it possible to list the different types of kinks to help the newer ones navigate?

Question: Is it possible to list the different types of kinks to help the newer ones navigate? Answer: One of the best ways to get a list of kinks is to look for a BDSM checklist. Some of them are dozens of pages long and will list practically every common and some very uncommon kinks

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