Whether you’re in a 24/7 D/s relationship or just exploring, this category delves into roles, power exchanges, and the emotional intricacies that make these connections unique.
Full Question: How do I speak to my master about formal etiquette training? I am a collared slave, and I would like there to be a high protocol for days we plan intense scenes.. just so that I can get in the right head space. I don’t want to be pushy, but I crave that […]
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Full Question: In a 24/7 Daddy/little dynamic with my husband. How can I get back in little headspace after being pissed off at Daddy? Answer: It’s difficult to return to any D/s role after a moment of anger. You are likely emotionally charged, and perhaps you still feel pains of anger, frustration, or sadness. Turning
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Full Question: I am very Submissive to my man, but it still seems as if he still is putting me down when we argue. I never just throw hurtful stuff in his face, but it seems as if he wants me sometimes, and at other times, if it’s not about sex, forget it. Should I
Should I stay in a relationship just because the sex is great? Read More »
Full Question: I’m 27 now, but there was a guy I was crazy about at school. We never got together but talked for hours about everything, including kink. We lost touch for a few years, and now we have been talking again. When we met, we ended up kissing. Then he decided he didn’t want
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Full Question: After a lot of struggle and research and thought, it’s really clear to me that I’m sexually submissive. That’s what turns me on and how I am in intimate relationships. The problem is I don’t see how this would fit in the life I want. I always imagine a life where I’m the
I want to be queen of my castle, can I be submissive too? Read More »
Full Question: I’m a sub, and my wife is an amazing Domme, but she prefers not to do scenes as often as I would like. Is it unheard of to have a regular Domme that isn’t your partner? I feel like I need this more than she does, and to have an outlet to sub
Can you have a Dominant outside your primary D/s relationship? Read More »
Full Question: My Dom and I have been together for three years. We are each other’s first when it comes to D/s, and we are learning and exploring together. Mostly, we have navigated and communicated our journey wonderfully. However, He opened up to me a few days after quite an extreme scene, where I cried
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Full Question: I met a new Master online, and we seemed to hit it off well. We saw each other in person twice. Then he just stopped replying to my texts. I asked if he had changed his mind about me, but he didn’t even respond to that. What does this mean? I don’t know
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Full Question: Lately, I’ve been noticing my Dominant softening up. He’s been acting like more of a boyfriend than a dominant, and I don’t know why. I’m afraid he may be losing interest in being my dominant. I’m not happy because it is something that I crave and need. I don’t know how to talk
Full Question: I am a submissive sissy with a Dom Daddy that likes to give me oral pleasure but I don’t like it. When he does it reminds me of my male side and turns me off! How can I explain to him how I wish he wouldn’t do that? Answer: It can be hard
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Full Question: Can the Dominant take control over ALL my life, even if I don’t want this? We are not in a 24/7 dynamic, it’s too much and they ask things I don’t wanna do. Answer: The simple answer here is no, a Dominant can not take control of anything that you’ve not negotiated beforehand.
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Full Question: How common, realistic or successful is it to be seeking a Dominant with specific physical, emotional, and social traits? Is it rude to blatantly list specific physical and personality characteristics? (eg. ABC sub seeking Dom/Master with XYZ) Answer: It’s extremely common to have preferences for partners. When you’re dating and looking for a
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Full Question: I am desperate. I have been the submissive guy of a dominant man, in the beginning, I asked if there was another relationship apart from mine, and he said no. Yesterday I discovered that he has a boyfriend and various sexual partners. What should do as a submissive? Answer: So you asked him
Discovered My Dominant Has Other Relationships and Lied to Me Read More »
Full Question: How would I go about transitioning from face-to-face to LDR D/s relationship? We’re going to different Universities. Answer: Long-Distance Relationships are quite different from regular relationships and they are not easy to handle but they can be challenging and a lot of fun too. It’s a new way of living life altogether! Researching
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Question: How can I help my Dominant when they are in Dom Drop? What about if we both drop at the same time? Answer: A common conversation in BDSM circles is sub drop but rarely, if ever, is Dom drop discussed. It is a real thing and does happen! We focus so much on caring
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Question: My Dom disappoints me sometimes….how can I open up to him about it? Answer: It can be really hard to confront your Dominant when they’ve disappointed you in some way. As submissives, we can feel that raising concerns about our Dominant’s behavior isn’t allowed or at the very least, isn’t submissive-like. But in all
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Question: I am supposed to meet my 1st Dom tomorrow. Do you have any suggestions for me? Things to look out for to be safe or things to please him? Answer: Meeting a potential Dominant for the first time can be an exciting and anxious experience. For first dates, make sure you have basic information
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Full Question: I am in a long-distance D/s relationship. We normally just stick to a regular dynamic but he is coming to visit me in a few weeks and has said he wants to switch. I just want to know how far should I take things. He has said he wants me to punish him
My Dom wants me to switch with him, how do I do that? Read More »
Question: My partner and I are interested in starting a Dom/sub relationship. What are some things we should do beforehand? Answer: Welcome to the great big world of D/s! Creating a power exchange dynamic that suits your relationship will take time and I’m glad you are asking what you should set up before you start.
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Full Question: What are the differences between TPE and 24/7? Does it have to be TPE even if it’s 24/7? Answer: That’s a great question! Let’s start with some definitions. TPE, or Total Power Exchange, is a term coined and defined by Steven S. Davis in the mid-1990s, in the newsgroup “alt.sex.bondage” during his debates
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