Relationship Dynamics

Whether you’re in a 24/7 D/s relationship or just exploring, this category delves into roles, power exchanges, and the emotional intricacies that make these connections unique.

How do I feel connected with my Dominant the weeks we don’t see each other?

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Full Question: How do I feel connected with my Dominant the weeks we don’t see each other? Answer:  It’s never easy to face being alone when you’d rather be spending time with your Dominant partner. Working on hobbies, hanging out with friends, and interacting with the BDSM community are great for distracting you and making […]

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How do I find a partner?

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Full Question: How do I find a partner who is interested in kink and/or D/s? Answer:  This is the most asked question in the Ask Submissive Guide column, so here’s your answer! The first step in finding a partner is going where they are. The good news is that kinksters are everywhere. Unfortunately, we don’t

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How can I explain to my partner that pain play isn’t my only desired source of pleasure?

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Full Question: How can I explain to my wife that while I enjoy being spanked and flogged, it doesn’t mean pain play is my only source of pleasure or intimacy? Answer:  Your communication with your wife should be open and honest, even about things in the bedroom. It can be difficult for people to talk

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What can we do to make the transition from a vanilla to D/s relationship smooth and pain free?

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Full Question: My boyfriend and I are just starting to change our relationship to a total D/s one. We’ve been dating for 2 years and have no models for the change. What can we do to make the transition smooth and pain-free? Answer:  What an exciting adventure you are embarking on!  While any relationship transition

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How do I know if I’m being too emotionally dependent on my Dom?

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Full Question: How do I know if I’m being too emotionally dependent on my Dom? Answer:  Emotional support is one of the biggest benefits of having a relationship. Your partners are there for you in times of need, and stress can offer you empathy and comfort, even guidance.  Emotional dependence passes the point of support.

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What is the secret to a successful LDR?

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Full Question: What is the secret to a successful LDR? Answer:  There’s no secret to successful relationships, no matter if they are long-distance or face-to-face. All relationships require both parties to work hard to cultivate the feelings and connection necessary to build that relationship and make it strong. Overall, a successful LDR requires effort, commitment,

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Do Dominants normally celebrate their submissive’s birthday?

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Full Question: Do dominants normally celebrate their sub’s birthday? Answer: Whenever I get asked about what is normal, I’m reminded of a quote from Tori Spelling, “Everybody knows there’s no such thing as normal. There is no black-and-white definition of normal. Normal is subjective.” So, do Dominants celebrate their sub’s birthday? Yes. Or no. It

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