A Human Pet - Exploring Pet Play and Owner/pet Relationships

Being a human pet is simply being a pet without including any specifically animal traits. So no barking or meowing, no ears or tails, treats that are human treats rather than animal treats.

Finding Your Spirituality In Service

Religion and spirituality have a connection but they don't have to be connected. When you believe in a structured religion it generally means you have a spirituality about it. But when you are spiritual, that doesn't mean you are connected to religion. Does that make sense?

How a Personal Protocol Can Aide Your Service

The first time I heard the word protocol when introduced to BDSM it was some special ritualized order of things that can happen in a relationship. It was an unspoken word when I was single. You didn't learn about protocol and no one I knew used a protocol to govern their own development and personal growth.

I'd like to change that. A personal protocol can bring you ahead of the game, no matter where you are in your submissive journey. In this article I'd like to give you a working definition of a personal protocol, how you can develop one whether you are single or in a relationship and what it can do for you.

You've Been a Bad Submissive: Learn How to Atone and Forgive Yourself

As a submissive, it's hard to not beat yourself up over being unintentionally disobedient. I've been known to mope around for days after I've been in trouble; basically still punishing myself - even though the punishment is complete. Punishment is so that when it's complete you can move on with a clear slate. So, how do you cure that post-infraction funk?

Understanding Sub Fever

Figuring out what to do once you know you have it can be difficult. Novice submissives lose their rational thought really easily when the fever takes hold.

Submissive Advent - Day 16: Prayer

A Submissive's Prayer

Author Unknown

Allow me the strength to answer questions I can't fathom. Allow me the spirit to know His needs. Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts. Allow me the serenity to serve Him in peace.

Final Preparations: Do You Know Your Dominant's Final Wishes?

Talking about the final journey is a difficult discussion but one that should be done whenever two or more people are in a serious relationship.

30 Days of Submission: Day 21 - Positions of Submission

Is there a physical position that makes you feel most submissive?

30 Days of Submission: Day 30 - What Makes Submission Special?

What makes submission special to you?

No Stupid (Sex Toy) Questions: Butt Stretching

So I kinda would like to explore bigger toys in my butt, but you hear all these myths. Like, if you go too big you'll make your butthole so loose you become incontinent and other gross stuff. Is this true?