Safety comes in many forms and at any level of risk awareness. One of the very first things you learn when you encounter BDSM is the use of safewords. But now, I feel it’s time to gather everything together and really dig deep into safewords; from their use, the safety implied and some of the problems safewords cause.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarYes, I've said it before but we are a community that needs to stand above the rest of the public and show what good manners are. That includes online.
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