A collar for submissives is one of the most fundamental symbols of their relationship and one that is usually gaurded and protected with their heart. With all the essays online about collars I thought I’d jump in with my own take on what everyone says and believes about collars.
Read The Article | Find Similar
When do you know you are ready for a collar? What's the value in a collar really? And how can you get one?
Read The Article | Find Similar
If you’re brand new to BDSM or even if you’ve got a few years under your belt, it’s good to sit down and figure out what submission means for you and how it works in your dynamic. Once you know what you need as a submissive, you can work with your Dominant to make your D/s relationship exactly what you desire.
Read The Article | Find SimilarEven if you don't have any fetish wear in your wardrobe I'm sure you can find something that would be acceptable at the party.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI wish to share some of my thoughts on my struggle with housework. I have been reading these articles on domestic service with interest. At 47 years old I still struggle with the mundane tasks of keeping a home.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI’ve had other Doms comment that He can’t really teach me, that He can’t really control me, blah blah. He isn’t old enough, there is no way He could have the experience needed to handle a strong sub like me. However, to me, it’s less about experience than the intuition He has.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThere are a lot of times that things are so obvious you think "surely no one has to be reminded." However, if you spend any amount of time around people (vanilla, lifestyle, strangers etc) you will certainly notice that "yes, sometimes someone needs to be reminded."
Read The Article | Find SimilarThis concludes the series with a look back at what was covered and some last minute thoughts.
Read The Article | Find SimilarSo how would they know when the humiliation is damaging you? Is it possible to use humiliation as a punishment without damaging a sub's self-esteem or is it best reserved strictly for play alone & nothing more?
Read The Article | Find SimilarI'm going to present a short list of reasons why this person fit so perfectly into your life and then vanished without a second glance.
Read The Article | Find Similar
