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Rules, Rituals and Protocol

Rituals and protocols can add richness, structure and even a little fun to a D/s relationship. Knowing the difference between the two can help the submissive better understand the desires and intentions of the dominant, and to be more pleasing when performing them.

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Book Review: Ageplay: From Diapers to Diplomas

The emotional connection, power dynamics, types of both littles and caregivers, stigmas that we have to deal with from people who don’t understand the dynamic, and educational resources such as a negotiation form, glossary, and a sample contract

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Bootblacking and Why I Love It

The thing for me which is so very wonderful about polishing Master’s shoes is that it is something that I can do on my own to show Master how much I am thinking about him. My focus is always on what I can do in order to make Master’s life better.

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Brie Embraces the Heart of Submission: After Graduation

“Brie Embraces the Heart of Submission: After Graduation” is as well written as the first one and once again, Red Phoenix makes it easy to get attached to her characters all over again. Not only that, but also expresses submission in such a beautiful, down to earth manner.

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Brie Learns the Art of Submission: Submissive Training Center

The entire novel is filled with amazing characters that, like me, you’ll fall in love with and can’t wait to learn more about, especially Brie and the man she’s fallen in love with.

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Broken Vows: When Vanilla Marriage Falls Apart Because of Kink

Ending the marriage was one of the hardest decisions I had to face. I still loved him, he was a great guy and we had fun together. I don't recommend divorce as the solution to all bedroom problems but let me share what steps we took before a divorce was my final solution.

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Building a First Aid Kit for Your Dungeon or Toybag

Building a First Aid Kit for Your Dungeon or Toybag is a list of first aid and personal help items to have on hand for your personal play room or a travel kit for use at play parties and other public events.

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Building Your Fetish Wardrobe on a Budget

There are different styles of fetish wear to consider when building your wardrobe. You might even have a decent selection in your closet already. To add a bit more spice you can always go shopping.

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But I Don't Like Pain! Learning to See the Eroticism in Pain as Pleasure

I can show you that pain is indeed something erotic when used correctly and in the right situations. Pain doesn't have to be painful, and other stimuli can be pleasurable and can either mask pain or enhance it.

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But My Partner is Vanilla...: Three Options Available To You When Your Partner Isn't Kinky

So you've discovered kink and want to try some things out. You talk to your partner about it. Unfortunately, no matter how you suggest things to your partner they aren't interested. With that knowledge, you have only a few options.

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