Your submissive journey is also a path to self-discovery. In this category, you’ll find resources and reflections to help you grow emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Do you have submissive desires or fantasies that you have yet to be able to explore? Do some of your desires confuse or frighten you? Do they excite you? I have sexual fantasies but I have to say that […]
30 Days of Submission: Day 27 – Fantasies Waiting Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why? Are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have? When I was looking for a Dominant I wasn’t really sure what I was looking
30 Days of Submission: Day 26 – Qualities of My Ideal Dominant Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or rituals? My relationship is full
30 Days of Submission: Day 25 – Rituals of Submission Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! What are the emotions that most directly let you access submission? What feelings do they inspire? I really had to think about this one for awhile because I feel my submission isn’t an emotion and doesn’t need to be
30 Days of Submission: Day 24 – Emotional Connection to Submission Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings? Wow. I spent a good long
30 Days of Submission: Day 23 – Questioning my Submission Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Can you feel submissive without a dominant partner? If so, how does your submission express itself? If not, how do you handle your submission or submissive feelings? I do believe that you can feel submissive without a Dominant but
30 Days of Submission: Day 22 – Submission without Domination, is it possible? Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Is there a physical position that makes you feel most submissive? As common as this sounds whenever I’m below his belt/waist height I feel more submissive to him. It could simply be because I have to look up to
30 Days of Submission: Day 21 – Positions of Submission Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Has your submission increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance? Honestly, I can’t say if my submission has increased or decreased over time because
30 Days of Submission: Day 20 – Fluctuating Submission Read More »
There’s going to come to a point, I pray, that the single slave will be not so single and will be heading towards being owned. So for the last message in this series, I thought I’d talk about releasing the fear of transformation. There’s a song from the late 80’s “Don’t Make Me Over” by
Single In the Scene Part VIII: Transformation Happens Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! How socially connected is your submission? Do you look for others to talk to about your submission for support or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?
30 Days of Submission: Day 19 – Submissive Networking Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Very often the stereotype of submission is that the submissive person loses the ability to have an opinion. While that clearly isn’t true except in the absolute rarest of occasions, how does communication factor into your submission and how
30 Days of Submission: Day 18 – Communicating Needs and Wants Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! What does trust mean to you in the context of submission? Trust means that my openness and honesty does not get dismissed out of hand. It means that what I say and feel has importance to my Dominant and
30 Days of Submission: Day 17 – What Does Trust Mean? Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Have you found your submission has changed with different partners/relationships? If you’re involved with partners of both sexes, does your submission relate or change based on gender or does it depend on the person? Unfortunately, you probably won’t get
30 Days of Submission: Day 16 – Is My Submission Different in Various Relationships? Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Has your submission evolved over time? If so, how has it evolved for you and if not (or if you are just starting out) how might you see or imagine it evolving in the future? Well, how much time
30 Days of Submission: Day 15 – My Evolution as a Submissive Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar? I was raised in an Open
30 Days of Submission: Day 14 – Religion Conflict Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this? Sexual submission is a huge part of my relationship with KnyghtMare. If
30 Days of Submission: Day 13 – Sexual Submission Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you
30 Days of Submission: Day 12 – Financial Submission Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission? How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you?
30 Days of Submission: Day 11 – Service Submission Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)? BDSM and Kink were where I
30 Days of Submission: Day 10 – BDSM and Kink in the Submissive Relationship Read More »
Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? Looking back on yesterday’s post on discipline and punishment you’d think that there would a large component of spanking or other corporal punishment but there
30 Days of Submission: Day 8 – Corporal Punishment Read More »
