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What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why? Are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have?
When I was looking for a Dominant I wasn’t really sure what I was looking for, I just knew what I didn’t want. I didn’t want a lazy, indecisive person like my ex was. But now that I have a Dominant I can see qualities that I prefer and if I had to find a new Dominant (don’t even think it!) these are the things I’d like to see:
- Innate ability to control their environment
- Solid understanding of their desires, preferences, and needs
- Strong work ethic and importance of budgeting
- An even temperament
- In touch with their emotions
The deal breakers I have are few, I think. They are no smokers, drinkers or future fathers.
That’s about all I can think about for this question, what do you think?
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