Coping with Different Sex Drives in a Relationship

It’s not pleasant, but it’s a reality that many relationships face, even when those relationships are kinky. It’s not the preference of one activity over another, but the desire for any activity at all; it’s the age old question: are you up for it? and the difference between your response and your partner’s. Having a […]

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Why Your Sexual Needs Matter in a D/s Relationship (or ANY Relationship)

Submissives often struggle to express their sexual needs, but those needs matter as much as a Dominant’s. This article explores why communication is vital, how to speak up without guilt, and why ignoring your desires can harm intimacy. A reminder that healthy power exchange requires mutual respect and open dialogue.

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Feeling Unfulfilled: Do My Sexual Needs Not Matter in a D/s Relationship?

Dear lunaKM, My boyfriend and I have decided to enter into a D/s relationship as fully as we can. Though I love serving my Dom, I find myself resentful that, mostly, sex involves his orgasms and not mine.  Very rarely does he seem interested in my pleasure at all or trying to connect my pleasure

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