finding a dominant

Being Specific in What You’re Looking For

Full Question: How common, realistic or successful is it to be seeking a Dominant with specific physical, emotional, and social traits? Is it rude to blatantly list specific physical and personality characteristics? (eg. ABC sub seeking Dom/Master with XYZ)  Answer: It’s extremely common to have preferences for partners. When you’re dating and looking for a

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Looking for a Dominant Partner? Do This First! How To Perform a Self-Assessment

Recently, my Master and I listened in on a kink Q&A. I was interested to see what questions people had about kink, especially people seeking guidance. Somewhat surprisingly, most people who tuned in seemed to have questions about relationships more than kink. Many of them were submissives curious about how to look for or embark

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Beyond the Kink Buffet: When You’re Ready for a Lifetime Partner

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. You have gorged. Years have passed from that first moment of recognition of self. Over those years you have explored different people and situations. Peeked inside of places you may have decided just

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How Searching for a Compatible Partner is Like Apartment Hunting

My partner and I just went through the strenuous process of apartment hunting and I realized along the way, that there are many similarities between apartment hunting and hunting for a compatible partner. These similarities are applicable both in vanilla and kinky relationships, but I believe, they are more pronounced in kink. When you begin

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30 Days of Submission: Day 26 – Qualities of My Ideal Dominant

This entry is part 27 of 31 in the series 30 Days of Submission

Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why? Are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have? When I was looking for a Dominant I wasn’t really sure what I was looking

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Making the Transition from Online to Face-to-Face Submission When Struggling with Agoraphobia

When I first started considering making the jump from being a strictly online submissive to a real life submissive, I really couldn’t find much information written about it. I didn’t let that discourage me because I was ready and determined to move forward.  I could find information about being a 24/7 slave but that’s not

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