You have the basics down for journaling, you’ve read up on journal prompts and making book notes and writing scene reports like a boss what more can there be in a submissive journal? Well, lots of things actually! Today it’s being thankful. A wonderful thing to consider when journaling is to add a gratitude log/journal. I […]
Submissive journaling is not just about writing a diary. Journaling is what you want it to be. It can be lists of things, thoughts, rants, collections, habit tracking and so much more. It can also be a big part of your personal growth and self-discovery. One of the best ways to do that is through
Today I want to talk about scene reports: what they are, how to begin writing them, and most importantly, how they can aid and empower your playtime. I have only had one scene go really bad with my Master. In all of our years of playing, in all of the trials and errors, in all
When you don’t know what you want to write about in your submissive journal but have an obligation to write something, one of the best tool is journaling prompts. Since the beginning of Submissive Guide I have curated a long, long list of introspective questions, thoughts, and quotes to help you develop as a person
Accepting criticism is never an easy thing to do. It’s extremely hard to accept it from people we know, but in my opinion, it’s even harder to accept criticism or negative comments from random Internet people. Why you ask? Because these people who you don’t know and don’t know you, or maybe only sort of
31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 22 – How to Manage Negative Comments Without Rage Read More »
You’ve made the decision that you’re going to keep a blog, you’ve picked your host, you’ve designed your site, and now it comes down to the writing. And then you clean the dishes, and the bathroom. And you take a walk. And you build a condo for the squirrels to live in, and you think
31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 21: Your First Blog Post Read More »
The challenge of any writer is, “what do I write about?” Maintaining a blog every day, I ask that question all the time. Since I started a blog over 7 years ago I’ve been able to come up with things to talk about almost every single day. With a bit of creative brainpower and a
One of the easiest ways to show who you are and what you want to write about is to personalize your submissive blog. What your blog looks like will give people a first impression before they’ve read a single word so it’s often very important if you want to attract readers. Also, it’s more likely
Blank page fright is a real condition for any writer, professional or amateur. We’ve all been there with the concern of what to write at one point or another. One solution I’ve come up with are days where I’m really inspired I make a list of potential ideas so that on days I’m stuck I
31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 18: First Page Ideas Read More »
When setting up your blog, there are a couple key items that you should have so that readers can be introduced to you, find a way to contact you and ways to navigate through your blog to find things they are looking for. You may not know it, but even if you are writing a
31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 17: Two Key Items Every Blog Should Have Read More »
Blogs come in all sorts of styles and designs these days. Some are personal journals and others like Submissive Guide is a business and resource. So, it might go without saying that having an online presence is an opportunity to make money with ads. But it’s far from easy and take it from someone with experience,
31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 16 – Should You Try to Make Money with Your Blog? Read More »
When you decide to open up your life to the world and write a public blog, there are some inherent dangers with being discovered or worse. What worse could there be? Reports to child services which could lead to losing your children, someone from your job discovering your “immoral” life and firing you, or complete disowning
In the previous article, we covered the different hosting services that allow adult blogging. Today let’s decide if the blog will be public or private. It’s an important first decision before you even start writing so let’s cover the differences and hopefully you’ll know if you want a public or private blog by the end
If you’ve decided you’d like to explore having a journal online, also called a blog, then you’ll want to know which ones are available, what they offer and most importantly in our lifestyle, what their adult content policies are. I’ve done a bit of the leg work and found out this information for you! Well,
31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 12: So You Want an Adult Online Journal (Blog) Read More »
Today I want to talk about mistakes people make when starting a journal. It all starts with good intentions, but if you don’t use a journal to its potential then you are wasting a valuable resource – YOU! Journaling Is For the Long Term You could say that having a journal is an investment. Writing
31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 11 – Top 3 Mistakes When Starting A Journal Read More »
Continuing on with our physical journals today we are going to talk about how to be creative with them and personalize them so that they make us want to use them more! I am creative but I can’t say I’m super artistic. I’ve never doodled, even when taking notes in school, but I love crafts
31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 10: Ways to Personalize Your Physical Journal Read More »
Many people come to this site searching for ways to improve their submission, communicate with their Dominant and explore different aspects of the D/s and BDSM lifestyles. Each day in October I will be writing a post focusing on journaling your submissive experience; from how to start, its purpose and how to use it for
31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 1: Introduction Read More »
