What if your Dom doesn’t want to compromise?

Full Question: What if your Dom doesn’t want to compromise? Is it his way or no way?

Answer: 

Just as I’m sure you have things you are unwilling to compromise on, your partner can have things they refuse to budge with. The deciding factor for any relationship is determining compatibility.  This includes the areas where compromise can not be made.

If your partner refuses to compromise, then you need to consider if whatever is up for discussion is important to compromise on. Some things aren’t deal breakers; you can adapt to their preferences. 

However, you should never compromise on things that are hard limits or boundaries you’ve established. Also, anything violating your ethics or morals should be considered an incompatibility you can’t get past. 

If, no matter what you suggest as a compromise, no agreement can be met, and it’s a dealbreaker for either of you, then you have an impassable difference. In those situations, ending the relationship may be the only solution. 

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