Selecting the Perfect Collar – Infographic
I cover how to select a collar that suits your lifestyle and relationship.
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66 Romantic Ideas for Your D/s Relationship
This one is for all the romantics out there! I’ve put together a list of ideas and suggestions to shower your partner with love and show them how much you appreciate them. Check out the article about romance in D/s before the list, because yes, you can have a romantic D/s relationship!
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Munch Discussion Pack – SSC and RACK
One of the many resources I want to provide the community are discussion packs for leaders of groups and interested others who want to conduct discussions on topics. To that end, I had kallista pull together a discussion pack with an optional power point presentation! This discussion pack is about the mantras Safe, sane and
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BDSM Safety Mantra Comparison Chart
This chart compares SSC, RACK, PRICK, and CCC. Since this was created, there have been a few more safety mantras come up, but these are still the primary ones you’ll hear as you learn and explore BDSM.
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Exploring a New Kink Worksheet
A worksheet to help you explore a new kink before you get into the bedroom/dungeon.
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5 Steps to Writing Useful BDSM Scene Reports
If you’re like me, you enjoy reliving past playtime through memories. I often write them down so that I can record every juicy tidbit before I forget. But what else can you learn from scene reports? What about new responses, experiences, triggers, and feelings? What about documenting how the play went with new partners or
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Entering Subspace Dos and Don’ts
A poster for Subspace tips.
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Building a First Aid Kit for Your Dungeon or Toy Bag
A list of essentials and other items to put in a first aid kit to keep where you play the most. It’s not like your regular first aid kit so check it out!
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Play Party/Dungeon Dance Cards
In the 18th and early 19th century, ladies had Dance cards for formal dances to make a list of the fellas they promised to dance with. Well, I took that idea and made Play party/dungeon cards for a similar list. These are not something obligatory, it’s for fun and if you find a use for
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A Butler’s Book for Entertaining
This document great for those of you who enjoy entertaining or have a lot of visitors to your home that you’d like to keep track of and make their stays pleasant and rewarding. Don’t remember if Todd has an allergy to shellfish? Check your Butler’s book entry on Todd. Need to reserve a hotel for
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11 Questions to Ask Your Partner Who Is Interested in Kink
Eleven questions that need to be asked to help you form your own thoughts and help you learn about kink so that you can be receptive to your kinky partner!
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