One of the many resources I want to provide the community are discussion packs for leaders of groups and interested others who want to conduct discussions on topics. To that end, I had kallista pull together a discussion pack with an optional power point presentation! This discussion pack is about the mantras Safe, sane and […]
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This chart compares SSC, RACK, PRICK, and CCC. Since this was created, there have been a few more safety mantras come up, but these are still the primary ones you’ll hear as you learn and explore BDSM.
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A worksheet to help you explore a new kink before you get into the bedroom/dungeon.
Exploring a New Kink Worksheet Read More »
If you’re like me, you enjoy reliving past playtime through memories. I often write them down so that I can record every juicy tidbit before I forget. But what else can you learn from scene reports? What about new responses, experiences, triggers, and feelings? What about documenting how the play went with new partners or
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A poster for Subspace tips.
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A list of essentials and other items to put in a first aid kit to keep where you play the most. It’s not like your regular first aid kit so check it out!
Building a First Aid Kit for Your Dungeon or Toy Bag Read More »
In the 18th and early 19th century, ladies had Dance cards for formal dances to make a list of the fellas they promised to dance with. Well, I took that idea and made Play party/dungeon cards for a similar list. These are not something obligatory, it’s for fun and if you find a use for
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This document great for those of you who enjoy entertaining or have a lot of visitors to your home that you’d like to keep track of and make their stays pleasant and rewarding. Don’t remember if Todd has an allergy to shellfish? Check your Butler’s book entry on Todd. Need to reserve a hotel for
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Eleven questions that need to be asked to help you form your own thoughts and help you learn about kink so that you can be receptive to your kinky partner!
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