This category provides practical advice and techniques for enhancing submission, from developing your skills to obedience and service to maintaining discipline and self-care.
When you are learning a new cleaning routine, any and all helpful resources are the motivation that you may need. I’m going to talk about a great site and app that is available to give you that kick in the pants you need some days when those lovely cleaning lists just look like insanity contained […]
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You may have seen the two previous posts about some green and homemade cleaners on the guide. If not, here are links to the articles. Green Recipes for Home and Health How to Make Laundry Soap In this article I’m going to share even more recipes for making cleaners that are safer for the water
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Yesterday we made a master cleaning list and then decided on a plan of what chore lists you wanted to have for you own circumstances. Part of the deeper cleaning plans will include room by room cleaning. Each room you have things you do to bring it back to the cleanest level you prefer it.
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The core of any cleaning plan are the lists of tasks that you carry out to maintain your home. I used to make a new list each and every day of the tasks I wanted to get done that day but one morning I sat and just glanced at the previous days’ lists and realized
As I have been making the slow transition between Active School Teacher to Active House kitty this summer, time management has become a really important factor in my daily routine. As I am sure is the case with many subs who spend a good deal of time at home, the pressure to make myself feel
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Yesterday you pulled together cleaning lists for each room on each day that you do cleaning. Now as the cleaning needs to be done, you may realize one thing. Clutter. Your house has piles of things, disorganized, under used and dusty. You may not know where to put some of the things you’ve collected or
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When does the car need a tune up again? Did we change the furnace filter recently? Have you descaled the coffee pot this month? How many times have you forgotten the routine maintenance tasks because you didn’t have them written down? I know I have. That was until I started adding reminders to my Google
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When I first starting making a concerted effort to organize my cleaning and home organization, the first place I encountered is still the place I turn to over and over again. I owe all that I’ve learned and the drive to push further to FlyLady! While I don’t use all of her steps any longer,
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I used to have piles of manuals for various gadgets. Often they’d disappear when I need them most (how do you change the battery in the thermostat?). I’d go through them and find items that I no longer own and the clutter was very annoying. So one day I decided I was going to find
If you and your Dominant like to host parties then a butler’s book might be a great tool to make entertaining more organized, and fulfilling. Can’t remember if John likes board games, or if Lisa has an allergy to tomatoes? Your own butler’s book can house that information for you so that you can be
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Today I’d like to share with you a tool that is very helpful for larger families of any type. If you have more than a couple kids or a poly family that needs to coordinate calendars then Cozi might be a great solution. What can you do with Cozi? With Cozi, you can organize your family’s
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Now that you have the basics of a Home Management Binder and you can put a physical binder together, some of you may want a digital version. Evernote is a great free program to make that happen and when I went paperless I used a great guide to get me on the right path. Now I could
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Today we are going to start building the workhorse of an organized home. We’ll discuss the physical notebook today and tomorrow I’ll cover how to make a digital version using Evernote. If you missed yesterday’s post, head back and read about the Home Management Binder and why it’s an important tool to control and manage your home.
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If you’ve ever wished you had a resource for everything related to your house care and maintenance, daily life and meal planning then this is the book for you. Sure it takes a bit to get started and developed but once you have one in place you’ll find your life to be so organized, together
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Hopefully you are now ready to embark on a few new changes to your domestic service and after all the panic of yesterday’s post you’ve calmed down and ready to get to work. Today is a moment of pure realization. When you look around at all the housework that needs doing you see a big
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Welcome to the first day of an entire month of ideas to improve your domestic service. The things we’ll cover pertain to home care and as I’m not perfect, some of it will be sharing my challenges and things I’ve learned as I embraced the stay at home slave role 7 years ago. A few
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October is going to be a frenzy of domestic and home management tips here at SubmissiveGuide.com. Starting Thursday I’m going to turn up the ‘Domestic Tips’ volume to 11 and am going to attempt to vomit onto you everything I know about how to make your home management and domestic service better. Each post will
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In the last month or so I have begun to seek a mentor and have been approached about being a mentor myself, a position which I accepted. As these events unfolded, I experienced a lot of flak from the online community – why would a submissive need a mentor if she already has a Dom?
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I used to hate giving blow jobs. I am sure it could be argued that I still don’t love them, but the mind shift has certainly come a long way in the positive for KnyghtMare. My history with giving oral sex is one I’ve heard from a few of you. Your first experiences were not
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The Holidays are coming, and they are coming up fast. I always feel like the entire month of November goes by in a blur. One moment we are donning our sexy cat costumes for Halloween and the next moment there are stockings on the mantle and children awaiting Santa. There is definitely a time warp
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