There are times where I don’t feel like being a slave. I look around the apartment and see what needs to be done, dishes, laundry, dinner prep, grocery shopping and I think to myself I really don’t wanna do any of it. Daddy will give me errands to run and even though I’m nodding my […]
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When you become submissive to someone, you could be afraid to lose who you were before the power exchange. I know I was afraid of changing too much when I began to identify as a slave instead of a submissive. Would I even recognize myself? Could I still be opinionated and silly, obsessed with Pentatonix
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So lately I seem to be extra sensitive to pain, and by lately I mean the last several months. I’m worried that I’ve lost my ability to enjoy and endure pain. Is there something I can do to de-sensitize myself. I like pain and miss it!! Sincerely, I Miss Being a Pain Slut! Hey there, Pain
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By Sensuous Sadie If I had a nickel for every submissive who hit on me, I could open my own dungeon. The real bummer about the whole thing is that I’m submissive myself. Oh sure, I top now and then, but when it comes down to it, my BDSM orientation is submissive. So, you ask,
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Dinner time at our house is 6 PM. In my opinion, it’s like the perfect time. Not too early, gives Daddy and I a couple of hours to catch up on our TV shows or to watch a movie and afterwards gives us time to do our own thing before bed. I’m usually very good
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It’s official. I am just past six months of living with chronic pain and no end in sight. It’s still new to me but somehow, also, it’s now me. It is a part of me that I have had to adjust to, just like once upon a time I had to adjust from a vanilla world to
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Is there any service out there that you can talk to a live person and go through some things that are fairly new to me in real time like right now… not necessarily the paid chat but just someone to ask questions and see if what I’m doing is normal…well somewhat normal. Hi there! I
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I’ve been a practicing submissive for roughly five years now; most of that time has been in a long distance capacity, but regardless, my role as a sub has played an integral part in shaping my role in my relationship with the person who is not only my Dominant, but (I hope) my life mate.
Ornamental Value: A Reflection on My Submissive Style Read More »
I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for topics that might work for a Meditation Monday, please email me. I want you
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This isn’t one of my usual posts that have some sort of resolution in the conclusion because this is something I’m working through and this post is created at least in part as a portion of the out-working. With this in mind, I’m looking forward to your feedback in the comments! This is something that’s
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Winter depression, or Seasonal Affective Disorder, impacts many submissives—changing energy, emotions, and even dynamics. This reflection shares personal struggles with SAD, its effect on submission, and the importance of focusing on joy, gratitude, and healing. A reminder that even in dark seasons, beauty and light can be found.
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Many submissives work demanding jobs that leave them depleted before coming home to serve. This article explores how exhaustion impacts submission and offers advice for creating recovery time, negotiating expectations with your Dominant, and practicing grace with yourself. Learn how to balance obedience with the reality of physical and emotional fatigue.
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The self-esteem and grooming series wraps up with one final lesson: learning to accept compliments and ignore criticism. Explore how your reactions to others’ words influence your confidence and self-image, and gain practical tips for building healthier habits around feedback and self-perception.
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In Part 4 of the Self-Esteem Through Grooming series, we explore how diet and exercise influence confidence and self-worth. It’s not about perfection—it’s about discovering the lifestyle that helps you feel strong, balanced, and proud of the body you live in.
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In Part 3 of the Self-Esteem Through Grooming series, discover how maintaining healthy, polished nails can elevate your confidence and self-image. From manicures to mindful upkeep, nail care is more than vanity—it’s self-respect, self-care, and a small act that speaks volumes about pride and personal presentation.
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Part 2 of the Self-Esteem Through Grooming series highlights how hair care impacts your confidence and presentation. Discover how maintaining and styling your hair isn’t just about appearance—it’s about self-respect, personal pride, and reinforcing the beauty and worth you already carry within yourself.
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Part 1 of the Self-Esteem Through Grooming series explores how caring for your skin supports both confidence and self-esteem. Learn why tending to your body’s largest organ isn’t vanity—it’s an act of gratitude, self-respect, and a powerful step toward embracing the beauty you already have.
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The Self-Esteem Through Grooming Rituals series begins with a look at how body care and self-presentation influence confidence in everyday life and D/s dynamics. Learn how grooming can become a mindful act of self-respect, helping you embrace your body and build genuine self-esteem from the inside out.
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The other day, one of my friends on Facebook messaged me and asked me if she could ask me a question. Of course I told her yes and then she began to furiously type her question to me. After I read her situation, I asked her if I could reply later. I was in class
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I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for topics that might work for a Meditation Monday, please email me. I am not
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