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lunaKM

lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on lunaKM.me, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.
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10 Books on Holiday Preparation

With the holidays right around the corner I wanted to give you some helpful resources to get you started on decorating and planning for the family; whether that be meals or traveling.

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10 Organization and Home Management Websites for the Busy Submissive

Sometimes you just need that extra bit of help out of your day or want to have all the tips and tricks on a certain activity. I have pulled together some of the best websites out there that will help you get through your difficult day in a breeze.

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10 Red Flags of Bad or Abusive Dominants

I'm going to give you 10 Red Flags that can indicate you are with an abusive person. This is nowhere near an exhaustive list. There are many many more flags out there. See the list of other essays below if you want a more in depth article.

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10 Tips to Calm Your Nerves When Meeting a Dominant for the First Time

The nervous energy attached to meeting a Dominant for the first time doesn’t go away for everyone. If you know a few tips and ways to calm your nerves before the big date, you’ll feel relaxed and ready to put your best foot forward.

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10 Tips to Make Moving In With Your Dominant (or vise-versa) Smooth and Easy

Many of the things we do when it comes to BDSM and D/s relationships seem to come faster than in a traditional relationship, so often we forget that the base of a D/s relationship is a traditional one. You are still two people that plan to cohabitate. With that comes decisions and plans, change and adjustment periods.

In the first list of tips, I want to give I'm going to cover the more basic 'vanilla' ideas that will make your submissive more comfortable as they move into your home. The second list is BDSM based tips that will hopefully start your relationship on a good footing now that you are living under the same roof.

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10 Ways to Overcome Selfishness

Some level of selfishness is healthy, how else can you get what you want and need to remain happy if you don't get what you want occasionally?

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11 Questions to Ask Your Partner Who is Interested in Kink

Eleven questions that need to be asked to help you form your own thoughts and help you learn about kink so that you can be receptive to your kinky partner!

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions - Day 10: Displaying Obedience and Worship Positions

You may also be asked to show your obedience to your Dominant in a position of humble service. One of the ways you can do this is with a pose of worship. I'm going to describe two basic ways you can show your obedience and worship. Please feel free to try your own; as with all of the positions expressed here, they are customizable and definitely personal to each relationship.

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions - Day 11: Apologizing with Submissive Positions

Today's task is to learn an appropriate pose to take when apologizing for wrong-doing.

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions - Day 12: Learn How to Stop Fidgeting Through Meditation and Focus

Today I'd like to talk about the bane of many a submissive; fidgeting. Sitting still is really hard for me in many situations. Either nerves or discomfort will cause you to twitch and move when all you want to do is not move. So how do you learn how to cut down your fidgeting?

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