transitioning to D/s

What can we do to make the transition from a vanilla to D/s relationship smooth and pain free?

Full Question: My boyfriend and I are just starting to change our relationship to a total D/s one. We’ve been dating for 2 years and have no models for the change. What can we do to make the transition smooth and pain-free? Answer:  What an exciting adventure you are embarking on!  While any relationship transition

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Why Isn’t Our Relationship Going Anywhere?

Moving an existing relationship into D/s can feel frustrating when one partner is more excited or motivated than the other. This Ask SubGuide response explores mismatched pacing, communication, expectations, and learning styles while reminding readers that a partner can’t be forced into greater Dominance or interest before they’re ready.

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