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How do you know when you’re ready to start sub training?

Full Question: How do you know when you’re ready to start sub-training? Answer:  It depends on what you consider submissive training.  First, let’s discuss what the word ‘training’ really means in a D/s dynamic setting. When you undergo training, what is really meant is that you are learning the mannerisms, behavior, attitude, and activities that […]

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Finding Your Submissive Voice: Speak Up for Better, Honest Communication

Almost every submissive or slave I speak with questions their “voice.” How much to say to their Dominant? When to say it? Can they say anything?  What if s/he thinks I’m rude? Would it be better to not say anything? What is appropriate? Can I still have a voice? Speaking up vs. speaking out VERSUS Shutting up

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Answered: Your Burning Questions About What Is Expected Of You As a Submissive

As a novice submissive it can be an exciting endeavor to enter into a relationship right away before you know anything about BDSM or D/s, or even being introduced to the dynamic from someone you met online or face to face. People do it every day. It is also one filled with questions and uncertainty

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What Does Breaking the Rules and Testing a Dominant’s Limits Help You Learn?

I’ll be the first to say that even after 7 years of being with my Dominant that I still occasionally test his limits and the rules placed on me. It’s not because I don’t believe that I should be following the rules or that he’s lacking in his Dominance. Not at all. It’s a natural

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How to Be More Aware of Your Self and Surroundings to Improve Your Submission

In this hustle and bustle world, we are losing an important connection. No, I’m not talking about the internet; we are all plugged and tuned out from the world around us. We seldom recognize the people around us let alone acknowledge them. If your goal is to be a submissive that serves every wish of

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 14: Show Off Your Positions!

You have followed the whole series of Submissive Positions posts here at Submissive Guide. If not, start back at the beginning, I’ll wait for you here. Are you back? Ready to show them off? Today’s post is all about you! I want to see what you came up with for positions that worked best for you.

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 2: Standing at Attention

Today’s challenge in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is all about standing at attention. One of the most common ways you can present yourself as submissive to a Dominant is by the way you stand. You may do it now even though you don’t have any specific rules as to how to stand. Pay

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The Importance of Rules and Structure in D/s Relationships

Submissives all around will identify with one or more of these terms: discipline, obedience, structure, and rules. I’m a submissive that needs structure. With structure can come rules, and that’s how my submission best functions in my dynamic with KnyghtMare. I serve him by actively following the rules that govern the structure of my day.

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