The other day in a submissive’s group I’m in on Facebook, a member made a post about something her dominant wanted her to do, yet she was absolutely 100% against doing and was looking for help on how to get past her unwillingness. There were several comments and there was one in particular that caught
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Many submissives struggle with feelings of guilt or frustration when they believe they are always doing something wrong. This reflective meditation invites readers to explore those emotions with compassion, helping them understand patterns, release shame, and reconnect with submission from a place of awareness, growth, and self-acceptance rather than fear.
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Submission doesn’t mean you’ll never get angry with your Dominant. This article explores how to handle conflict without suppressing your emotions or letting frustration explode. Learn ways to cool down, communicate openly, recognize outside stress, address concerns early, and repair the conversation when anger has already gotten the better of you.
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A D/s relationship should fit the people in it, not an idealized version borrowed from someone else. This personal reflection explores balancing wants and needs, adjusting unrealistic rules, communicating emotional limits, and recognizing that healthy submission may require flexibility, comfort, affection, and a dynamic built around what both partners actually ne
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Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Has your submission ever let you down? Have you ever been criticized for your submission? Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship? Have you ever looked back and realized you made
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Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings? Wow. I spent a good long
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Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Has your submission increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance? Honestly, I can’t say if my submission has increased or decreased over time because
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Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! How socially connected is your submission? Do you look for others to talk to about your submission for support or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?
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The most asked question from experienced submissives in the past few months has to do with struggle internally with your own submission, with your resistance to discipline and overall disagreement in a relationship. It is, of course, a natural progression of behavior adjustment and of introspection. We all know that the path of submission is
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Balancing professional life with submissive desires can be challenging. Discover practical rules and tips for working submissives to explore D/s dynamics while thriving in their careers.
Work, Submission, and Me: The Rules That Keep It All Together Read More »
I am quite new in action to the lifestyle, but far from new in thought. I have known basically forever that I am a submissive…but have been stuck on knowing what to do about it. I am now quite happily with my Sir. He seems very pleased with my natural submissiveness…but we have one are
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You’ve met the perfect person; they are strict and charming, their dominance is a perfect compliment to your submission. There is just one hang-up. They are shorter than you, or they could be smaller in stature than you. Could there be an issue with your ability to submit to someone that can’t overpower you physically
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