Why Your Sexual Needs Matter in a D/s Relationship (or ANY Relationship)

Submissives often struggle to express their sexual needs, but those needs matter as much as a Dominant’s. This article explores why communication is vital, how to speak up without guilt, and why ignoring your desires can harm intimacy. A reminder that healthy power exchange requires mutual respect and open dialogue.

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Feeling Unfulfilled: Do My Sexual Needs Not Matter in a D/s Relationship?

Many submissives worry that their sexual needs should come second in a D/s relationship. This article explores why fulfillment, communication, and mutual care are essential parts of healthy power exchange, helping readers understand that submission does not mean ignoring desire, boundaries, or emotional well-being.

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When Needs Change: How Communication Worked When My Partner Didn’t Want to Be Dominant Anymore

When a partner no longer wants to be dominant, it can shake the foundation of a D/s relationship. This article explores how communication, emotional honesty, and flexibility helped navigate a major identity shift, offering insight into adapting dynamics while honoring both partners’ evolving needs.

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So You Want to Share Your Kink with Your Vanilla Partner – What You Need to Know

This is a guest post by Boundobedience.  I read a lot of questions and answers from people who are into BDSM and are with people who may or may not also be into BDSM as well. There are two groups that I generally see. Well, three, but the group that successfully manages to convert their

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