Remember Who You Are – Staying True to Yourself in a D/s Relationship

When an individual enters a relationship, it’s quite easy to lose yourself. You start using ‘we’ instead. “We” liked the movie, “We didn’t like the restaurant” and of course, there’s all those love songs about two becoming one (I am so sorry if the Spice Girls song 2 Becomes 1 is now stuck in your

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A Submissive’s Prime Directive: Take Care of the Property

Mollena Williams, a well-known and respected speaker, educator, and Ms. Leather 2010, has inspired my submission more than she will probably ever know. One of my favorite messages she conveys is that the submissive’s prime directive (affiliate link) is to take care of the property. The meaning can apply to many things in a submissive’s journey, but

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What Do I Do While I Wait for a Response from My Long Distance Dominant?

Dear lunaKM, As a slave in training, I start doubting my worth when I don’t get a response within an hour. –impatient We hear this one a lot. The silence between messages can feel so heavy, especially when your heart is deeply invested. But here’s the truth: your value isn’t defined by someone else’s response

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Massage as Ritual

KnyghtMare enjoys a foot massage on what used to be a regular basis. Every Sunday night I would fill the plastic tub with hot water and salts to soak his feet before his massage. After they had soaked I would towel them off and then with massage oil or lotion would lovingly massage his feet.

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