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When Submissives Go Wild: Sub Frenzy

Submissive Frenzy, or “sub frenzy,” is an intense psychological state where submissive desires feel overwhelming and urgent. It can cloud judgment, leading to risky decisions and emotional turmoil. Understanding its causes and signs—like desperation for connection, impaired judgment, and risky behavior—can help you navigate it safely. Read more here!

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Remember Who You Are – Staying True to Yourself in a D/s Relationship

When an individual enters a relationship, it’s quite easy to lose yourself. You start using ‘we’ instead. “We” liked the movie, “We didn’t like the restaurant” and of course, there’s all those love songs about two becoming one (I am so sorry if the Spice Girls song 2 Becomes 1 is now stuck in your

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A Submissive’s Prime Directive: Take Care of the Property

Mollena Williams, a well-known and respected speaker, educator, and Ms. Leather 2010, has inspired my submission more than she will probably ever know. One of my favorite messages she conveys is that the submissive’s prime directive (affiliate link) is to take care of the property. The meaning can apply to many things in a submissive’s journey, but

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What Do I Do While I Wait for a Response from My Long Distance Dominant?

Dear lunaKM, As a slave in training, I start doubting my worth when I don’t get a response within an hour. –impatient Dear impatient, From your brief question, I am going to assume that the response you are waiting for is through text, so this could be a long distance or online only relationship. I

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Sub Drop From Afar: Managing Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship

Sub drop is the feeling of hopelessness and depression that can follow the extreme rush of endorphins during intense play or sex if the sub is not cared for appropriately afterward. Care varies from person to person – some of us need to be held and cuddled and praised and iced or hot packed accordingly,

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Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Several years ago, I was reading a book. In the book, one of the characters had a tattoo that read “quod nutrit me destruit me”. After reading a bit further, the translation of the quote was given, “that which nourishes me also destroys me”. Long after finishing the book, I was unable to forget that

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Massage as Ritual

KnyghtMare enjoys a foot massage on what used to be a regular basis. Every Sunday night I would fill the plastic tub with hot water and salts to soak his feet before his massage. After they had soaked I would towel them off and then with massage oil or lotion would lovingly massage his feet.

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