Brattiness isn’t about defiance for its own sake, it’s about playful energy, consent, and connection. This article explores creative ways to express bratty behavior in a healthy D/s dynamic, helping submissives keep things engaging, fun, and mutually satisfying without undermining trust or respect.
How can I find new creative ways to be bratty? Read More »
So I am not satisfied with my boyfriend. I don’t know how to go about telling him, I want to be dominated. I am not responding to vanilla sex anymore, and need more. I need/want him to be domineering, to know he will take care of my wants and needs. We have had bumps in the
I’m Ready to Get Kinky – How Do I Talk To My Partner? Read More »
Not every kinky experience feels erotic or arousing, and that’s normal. This article explores why kink isn’t always sexy, addressing emotional states, expectations, and pressure while helping readers understand the difference between fantasy and reality, validate their experiences, and approach kink with more self-compassion and awareness.
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Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)? BDSM and Kink were where I
30 Days of Submission: Day 10 – BDSM and Kink in the Submissive Relationship Read More »
So you’ve discovered kink and want to try some things out. You talk to your partner about it. Unfortunately, no matter how you suggest things to your partner they aren’t interested. They are really vanilla. It may be obvious that I’m not talking about the ice cream flavor here, but if you are really a
