Dear Submissive Guide, How do I find a Dom? I know I want to be a sub, but I’m lost. I don’t know how to find a Dom and live the way I want to. Sincerely, Looking for a Dom Hey there! You’ve asked a question that every single submissive asks themselves at some point: […]
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Looking for a Dominant partner but not sure where to start? This post gathers helpful resources and practical advice for finding compatible Dominants online and in real life. Learn how to approach D/s dating with confidence, recognize red flags, and build connections rooted in trust and authenticity.
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BDSM relationships don’t all follow the same emotional rules. This article explores the idea of “strings” versus “no strings” in BDSM, examining expectations, boundaries, communication, and emotional responsibility to help readers navigate casual and committed dynamics with clarity and consent.
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Searching for a compatible partner can be frustrating and overwhelming. Using the metaphor of apartment hunting, this article explores how patience, priorities, and realistic expectations play a role in finding a kink-compatible partner, helping readers approach dating and connection with clarity, self-awareness, and less self-blame.
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It’s the burning question on our lips now isn’t it? Through the earlier posts we’ve learned whether you are kinky, what role or roles we might enjoy and how to stay safe when exploring kink. So it makes sense that you now want to know how to find someone to experiment with and maybe have a relationship with! I’m going
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First date jitters are perfectly normal, but it’s a good idea to calm your nerves prior to meeting your date. Before any first date, avoid thinking about the countless “what if” scenarios and simply go without any expectations. Unfortunately, the nervous energy attached to meeting a Dominant for the first time doesn’t go away for
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It’s easy to fall in love, but hard to find the right person to catch you. ~ @iam_jhurlz Dominants the world over are unique and different – just like we are. And when you are on the look out for the one to partner with it can get overwhelming. The qualities to look for in a
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Looking for your partner is challenging, no doubt about it. You’ve probably done the bar scene, the alternative adult dating sites, and maybe a few of the vanilla ones too. No matter where you look you find men or women that just aren’t your type. I’m here to say that it is possible to find
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