D/s dynamics

The Sexual Submissive

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. A sexual submissive is a person who manifests submissive traits only in direct connection with sexual arousal and release. In all other aspects of their life this person will probably comport themselves in

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30 Days of Submission: Day 16 – Is My Submission Different in Various Relationships?

This entry is part 17 of 31 in the series 30 Days of Submission

Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Have you found your submission has changed with different partners/relationships? If you’re involved with partners of both sexes, does your submission relate or change based on gender or does it depend on the person? Unfortunately, you probably won’t get

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30 Days of Submission: Day 2 – Who has my submission?

This entry is part 3 of 31 in the series 30 Days of Submission

Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are

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The Role of a Collar in a Long Distance D/s Relationship

This entry is part 14 of 16 in the series Collars and Collaring

It’s no secret that having a working long distance relationship is a challenge, even under the most traditional circumstances, but when the dynamics of your relationship are dependent upon the delicate balance of give and take between Dominant and submissive, the potential challenges that you face increase tenfold. When you are unable to spend your

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