D/s breakups

The Importance of Keeping It All Together After Being Released From a Collar

This entry is part 9 of 10 in the series Relationship Breakup

In the immortal words of Whitesnake:  “And I know what it means/To walk along the lonely street of dreams/And here I go again on my own.” I’ve been released from my Dominant.   This was my first D/s relationship, so I don’t have any experience to compare this to.  It’s not like a Vanilla break-up.  No, not

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Release from the Collar: A Journey

This entry is part 10 of 10 in the series Relationship Breakup

March 20, 2014. Sir released me tonight.  I’ve been released. I admire and respect his reasoning.  He has a lot going on and he can’t fulfill his responsibilities as my Dom.  He recognizes this and made the decision with my best interests in mind.  I didn’t ask for this; I wasn’t unhappy with our relationship. 

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How to Move On When The D/s Relationship Ends

This entry is part 7 of 10 in the series Relationship Breakup

Just how does one know how to move on after a relationship has come to an end, regardless of the reasons behind it? That is sometimes a confusing question for submissives to answer for themselves. Often a submissive will feel lost and all alone, as if they feel that no one will understand what they

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It’s Not Over Until The Fat Lady Sings AKA The Ending Of A D/s Relationship

This entry is part 8 of 10 in the series Relationship Breakup

As always the views in this article are mine and mine alone unless otherwise stated. I write about what I know and what I know is me and my journey.   As the old saying goes it’s not over until the fat lady sings.  In this instance the fat lady would be me, a few

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The Heartache of a Breakup: Recovering from a BDSM Relationship Ending

This entry is part 3 of 10 in the series Relationship Breakup

I’ve not experienced a D/s breakup and I hope I will never have to, but I have experienced heartache and divorce so I’m drawing my experience of those to write this post. I do hope that it will help those of you going through the painful time from the realization of the end and through

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