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Self-Esteem and Unsolicited Advice – Submissive Meditation Monday

By lunaKM / 3 minutes of reading

This entry is part 1 of 19 in the series Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection, and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for topics that might work for a Meditation Monday, please email me. How’s your self-esteem? Do you feel […]

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Self-Esteem Through Grooming Part 4: Diet & Exercise

By kallista / 7 minutes of reading

This was probably the trickiest piece to add to the series. None of this is actually meant to be soapboxing, but because body image is such a hot-button topic, it was difficult to keep this short, effective, and yet general enough that I’m not trying to dictate the way that people should eat and exercise

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There’s No Size Limitation to Being Kinky

By tequilarose / 5 minutes of reading

The other day, one of my friends on Facebook messaged me and asked me if she could ask me a question. Of course I told her yes and then she began to furiously type her question to me. After I read her situation, I asked her if I could reply later. I was in class

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Being a Little Doesn’t Come with a Size or Age Limitation

By tequilarose / 4 minutes of reading

The other day, my little sister gentlerayne, sent me a text message. She told me that I needed to check out this post in a Fetlife group. And boy, was she angry. Being angry isn’t her normal behavior. She’s very soft-spoken and a gentle soul. I knew whatever made her angry, was probably gonna irritate

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Learn to Love The Body You Have – Submissive Meditation Monday

By lunaKM / 3 minutes of reading

This entry is part 13 of 19 in the series Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for topics that might work for a Meditation Monday, please email me. With yet another

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The Day I Stopped Rejecting Compliments and Learned to Love Myself

By lunaKM / 5 minutes of reading

About 5 years ago I was an emotional mess. I had really poor self-esteem and my body image was even worse. I’ve always been an obese woman – since I was a teen I’ve carried more than a few extra pounds. So the cruel and hateful words of my youth sure contributed to the way

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You Don’t Have to Be a Porn Star or Fashion Model to Participate in BDSM

By lunaKM / 3 minutes of reading

You’re sitting at your computer (or tablet, or phone) right now and have wondered for some time about going to a BDSM munch or a party or convention but are afraid that you don’t fit into the image you have in your head of who really is into BDSM. You’ve seen the porn on Kink.com

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Seeing a Desirable Me: Learning Body Confidence through the Fingers of a Lover

By lunaKM / 4 minutes of reading

Originally published April 9, 2011 on Fearless Press when I was a guest author there. From an early age, I would look into the mirror and see only the things I wish I could change; from the dimple in my chin, my growing belly and fat arms to my round face, huge jiggly ass. Then I didn’t

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Who Influences Your Submission?

By tequilarose / 5 minutes of reading

The other day, I found myself wondering who and what influences me with the decisions I make. The reason why I found myself pondering this is that I had begun to doubt myself and everything I believed and how I lived my life because of something someone had said about me. This person who had

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Help! My Dom is smaller than me!

By lunaKM / 2 minutes of reading

You’ve met the perfect person; they are strict and charming, their dominance is a perfect compliment to your submission. There is just one hang-up. They are shorter than you, or they could be smaller in stature than you. Could there be an issue with your ability to submit to someone that can’t overpower you physically

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