BDSM relationship styles

An Overview of 1950’s Head of Household Style Power Exchange

In 2014, a local kink community member contacted me to say she had heard about an author compiling essays regarding different styles of the M/s dynamic, suggesting I respond regarding our 1950’s relationship. I did, and what I discovered in the correspondence about the project was surprising. The author had told me that when setting out to

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Grappling with Tradition and History to Define 24/7 Long Term D/s Relationships

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. _Disclaimer: This article is over 15 years old and some of the thoughts may feel antiquated. It is shared here to expand your view and see the growth of knowledge over time. _

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – Rife

This entry is part 2 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is a guest post by rife. Hi this is rife, Sinclair’s boy. Maybe you’ve read dirty things about me, but that’s not the whole story. So what am I up to when not bent over? Well … I love erotica and porn as much as anyone (honest!), but often when people describe it, we get

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – cyberkittenXLS

This entry is part 3 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is a guest post by cyberkittenXLS for the A Day in the Life Series. I will preface this by saying there is not really a “typical” day for me as I work 2 part-time retail jobs. That being said let’s assume I work afternoon to evening for this… I wake up to our toddler’s

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – WKslittleone

This entry is part 4 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is a guest post by WKslittle one for the Day in the Life Series. Cap/uncapped writing is the author’s way of written communication and is a common choice for online LDR relationships. The Day in the Life Series is the only time I allow posts with non-standard grammar/spelling methods. If this bothers you, then

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – Autumn

This entry is part 5 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is a guest post by Autumn. I’m Relatively new to the BDSM community, but Master Grey is not. He introduced it to me slowly, respectfully, but my desire grew to know more, leading me to your website. :) A day in the life begins, really when I wake up. This varies currently due to my

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Is He Doing This Just For Me?

Dear lunaKM, I have been in a vanilla relationship for quite some time and lately, we’ve been trying out sub/dom. I’m a sub but not only in the bedroom. I like to be told what to do and punished if I don’t complete them. I’m the kind of person that needs that punishment because I

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A Day in the Life of a submissive – moonlight

This entry is part 6 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is a guest post by moonlight. My days usually begin at 7am or so when our child wakes up (although sometimes it is much earlier). I send Sir a good morning message and I check in with the rest of our poly group too. I make breakfast and decide on something for dinner that night in case

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – Tequila Rose

This entry is part 7 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

There’s nothing really super glamorous about my life, but I thought it would be a nice change of pace to write something a bit different from my usual and give you the readers a little peek into what an average day is for me. My days start usually at 6:30 am when the alarm goes

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30 Days of Submission: Day 29 – BDSM in the Relationship

This entry is part 30 of 31 in the series 30 Days of Submission

Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission? What is your relationship to it? Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have some other type of relationship

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – bonimiss

This entry is part 8 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is a post by bonimiss for the Day in the Life Series. I saw luna’s request for a day in the life and was immediately interested but then I hesitated. I fear I suffer from “Not Doing It Right” syndrome but then I thought if I am doing it the way Sir specifies, I

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – DarlingDoll

This entry is part 12 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is part of the A Day in the Life Series. Thanks DarlingDoll! I am a brat. I am a mouthy loud-mouthed impatient bent kinky little brat who has gone through phase after phase to amuse myself with one constant. My Daddy. Together he and I have shared tattoos, shaved heads, pink Mohawk’s, and blue

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