Question: I am new to submitting. I love it so far but I want some tips on what I can do to please my Daddy Dom, specifically in the bedroom. Any advice is helpful.
Answer: “How do I please my partner?” is a very common question asked by just about every submissive at one time or another. You aren’t alone in feeling like you need to solve a puzzle to figure your Dominant partner out. I’ve been there too.
But, once you realize a simple truth, things will be a lot easier for you. The truth is only one person can tell you what to do to please your partner and that is *your partner*. I’m sure you won’t argue that people are unique and their preferences and personalities will mean they like different things. So it stands to reason that your partner will find things pleasing that, perhaps, my partner would not. And the same in reverse, there are things that I know KnyghtMare enjoys that many other Dominants may not. Finding the things that work for you and your partner, is half the fun of a new relationship!
So to fully answer your question, you will want to learn how to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. There is no shame in not knowing how to please them and it is a healthy thing to admit that you need help. Use the conversations you have to get to know your partner on a deeper level. If they aren’t sure what you can do to please them, it may be an opportunity to explore together what D/s means for you both and find ways to make those interests work for each of you.
Here’s a link to a series of articles on Submissive Guide that should help you open up the lines of communication so that your budding relationship can continue to grow. Best of luck!
