After “Red” : How to Manage the Aftermath When You’ve Used Your Safeword

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A safeword is your lifeline in play—a vital way to communicate when you’ve reached a physical or emotional limit. For those who play with safewords, there’s often an unspoken expectation that they’re reserved for serious moments, making submissives hesitant to use them. But remember, using your safeword is never something to be afraid of. While […]

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Creating Realistic Submissive Goals Sets You Up for Success

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Last year I wrote about the importance of revising your contracts at the start of the New Year so you can make sure that it reflects your current relationship parameters and hard/soft limits.  I’m still a single submissive, and (for the time being) I’m enjoying this journey of self-discovery and self-improvement.  One thing that single submissives must always remember is

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The Year’s Best-Selling BDSM Books and eBooks from Amazon Voted by YOU

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some time pulling together the entire year’s count of sales through Amazon.com from Submissive Guide’s links. I wanted to know what you all were reading! And boy is it interesting! Check it out and if you see a book that peaks your interest, head on over through the link and check it out. Your other

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Communicating While Submissive

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This is a guest post by  Xiao Yingtai. Doms keep telling us that they’re not mind-readers, so we have to communicate.  But it’s hard! Especially when it’s something they might not want to hear. The good news is that there is always a submissive way to say it. And you never have to compromise the message. Here is

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