This Submissive Meditation Monday invites you to rekindle your sexual fire and reconnect with your sensual energy. Learn how mindfulness, sensory awareness, and intentional desire can deepen intimacy, renew passion, and help you embody the sexual confidence your submission—and your relationship—deserve.
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Wondering what really happens at a BDSM play party or dungeon? This guide walks you through who you’ll meet, what to expect, and how to handle your first event with confidence. Learn about etiquette, consent, and safety so you can explore your local kink community feeling prepared and welcome.
Nervous about attending your first BDSM munch? You’re not alone. This post explains what happens at a munch, who you’ll meet, and how to overcome those first-time jitters. Discover how these casual, welcoming meetups can help you learn, connect, and start building relationships in your local kink community.
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New to public kink spaces? This post breaks down the essential etiquette and general protocols to follow at munches, dungeons, and BDSM events. Learn how to stay respectful, confident, and composed while engaging with your local community—starting with one golden rule: always be polite.
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Looking for ways to meet local kinksters? This post breaks down the different ways to connect, from munches and educational events to online groups and casual socializing. Learn how to approach your local BDSM community with confidence and curiosity while building authentic, respectful relationships.
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Wondering how to find your local BDSM community? This post walks you through using online tools—like FetLife, social media, and event directories—to connect with local kinksters. Learn where to look, how to reach out, and how to start building meaningful real-world connections in your kinky community.
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Coupons and couponing have been given a bad wrap with the reality TV shows that show extreme coupon users. I know I’ve sat in awe of the people who use hundreds of coupons for their grocery order and somehow get their purchase to mere cents. Of course what they aren’t sharing in the TV show
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By now you should have a handle on your stockpile, meal plan and understand how to use a price book. Today we’ll cover shopping in season. When we talk about shopping in season it often relates to produce but that’s not the only thing that has a season. What other things can you think of
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How often has this scenario happened to you? You make a quick trip to your favorite grocery store. You buy two items from your list: a head of lettuce and a can of diced tomatoes. The store was out of sour cream, so you decide to swing by another store on the way home, a
Some days I just don’t know what to cook. Even if I’ve made a meal plan, I sometimes don’t feel like fixing it or I forgot to thaw the protein. So, my go to are pantry dinners. These are dinners that you can whip together with the ingredients you always have on hand. The ingredients
Continuing on the path to better domestic service by way of saving money we’re going to talk about cooking from scratch. Don’t get all panicky yet. I don’t meant to scratch cook everything – as no one has that much time anymore. But there are a few things that will definitely save you money if
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I know what I was thinking when I first heard that a stockpile could save me money. How could having more of somethings be cheaper? There’s just the two of us, why would I need 10 packs of toilet paper? But I learned pretty quickly that a stockpile is only as large as needed for
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Whether you’ve been preparing meals for your family for years, or you are just starting out in a place on your own, one of the best ways to save money and sanity in the kitchen is to plan your meals. Meal planning is an important skill for the organized budget-conscious domestic submissive because not only
Pansexuality is more than gender—it’s attraction to people as individuals. This reflection shares one submissive’s journey of discovering pansexual identity later in life, questioning labels, and embracing desire that transcends sex or gender. Honest, thoughtful, and personal, it offers insight into what being pansexual means in real relationships.
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We’re over half way through the month’s series on improving your domestic skills and I’m so proud of the progress you all have made! Today is all about you. I’d like you to share your progress with us. You can share images of your physical home management journal, screenshots of your digital one or even
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Submission should never mean silence. This post explores the essential rights every submissive has in a BDSM relationship—consent, safety, and the freedom to communicate openly. Learn how to keep your voice strong and your boundaries clear while nurturing a healthy, empowering dynamic with your Dominant.
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When you are learning a new cleaning routine, any and all helpful resources are the motivation that you may need. I’m going to talk about a great site and app that is available to give you that kick in the pants you need some days when those lovely cleaning lists just look like insanity contained
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You may have seen the two previous posts about some green and homemade cleaners on the guide. If not, here are links to the articles. Green Recipes for Home and Health How to Make Laundry Soap In this article I’m going to share even more recipes for making cleaners that are safer for the water
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Yesterday we made a master cleaning list and then decided on a plan of what chore lists you wanted to have for you own circumstances. Part of the deeper cleaning plans will include room by room cleaning. Each room you have things you do to bring it back to the cleanest level you prefer it.
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The core of any cleaning plan are the lists of tasks that you carry out to maintain your home. I used to make a new list each and every day of the tasks I wanted to get done that day but one morning I sat and just glanced at the previous days’ lists and realized
