Full Question: How do I please my Dom when I am on my period?
Answer:
I’m going to assume that you want to know about sexual pleasure and intimacy during your period, even though you don’t say so specifically in your question. All period-having people have asked this question at one time or another, so let’s get some tips.
I hope you’ve talked with your Dominant about this, and if not, do that now!
First, you can have period sex! Many more people enjoy period sex than you realize. Though it’s 100% safe, it’s always a matter of what you are your partner are comfortable with. For some, it’s even more fun, thanks to the natural lubrication provided by menstrual fluid and a potential increase in sex drive.
So, know what you are comfortable with during your period. Some people are okay with not abstaining from sexual activities during their cycle, and others have physical or mental reasons to limit it. When you know what you’re comfortable with, talk with your partner and see if they are on the same page.
If sex is not an option, you can do plenty of other things! Manual sex, oral sex, or anal sex, as well as sensual massage, come to mind. But don’t leave out things that build intimacy that isn’t sexual in nature. Intimate things like cuddles and spending quality time together, such as walks or dates, are great at relationship building without needing sex.
If sex is an option, get a dark towel for playtime. Then toss it in the wash, and then not have to spot-clean your sheets! You should still use protection against pregnancy (and STIs) if you don’t have continuous protection, such as oral birth control. Backup safety during period sex is highly recommended. Sperm can live for a long time – up to five days, to be exact. It’s possible to conceive days after period sex.
Five reasons to enjoy period sex:
- You’re more lubricated during your period.
- Sex and orgasms reduce cramps.
- You often have an increased sex drive during your cycle’s first day or two.
- A new form of intimacy to enjoy together.
- Receiving oral is okay too, if your partner is into it.