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What’s That Sound? Discreet BDSM Play and Hiding Toys from Children

This is a guest post by moonlight. No matter how you choose to go about it, kinky or vanilla, we want to keep our fun-loving activities away from our children. However, by their very nature, children are curious little people who can have quite the sneaky side and don’t like missing what everyone is up

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7 Myths of Grieving and Understanding Your Responses to Death

This entry is part 9 of 11 in the series The Submissive Resume

This is a guest post by Shahjahani a personal friend and Hospice Nurse. “Grief is a journey, not something you get over” Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Grief can be experienced for many reasons, not just the loss of a loved one. Grief is not just related to the loss of a person’s physical presence. Grief

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Master’s Banquet – A formal D/s Feast

This entry is part 16 of 35 in the series Rituals, Rules and Protocol

This is a guest post from Slave Dove. I am unsure where it originated, but am sharing it here from a now defunct website. These dinners are what many would view as a “scene” but they are not play parties. No one is available for physical “use” it is formal Old Guard Domination and submission at

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When the Walls Have Ears – 5 Strategies for D/s and BDSM Play with Kids Around

This is a guest post by Erika McLean. My kids get up at just about 6 am like clockwork every day.  They tend to wander out in the middle of the night into the living room because they’ve had a nightmare.  Anyone who has kids is going to recognize this as how your own life works.  Anyone who

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The Curse of Masochism

This is a guest post by kaya of Under His Hand. I tend to think of my particular brand of masochism like a chronic illness. Like, say, the diabeetus. (Some) people who have diabetes have to stab themselves with needles regularly. They have to take shots and watch their diet, and they do these things,

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What is Primal Play?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen on this site and in the BDSM community. Mr. Samsonite. Every group has one; you know, the guy who can’t show up to the play party without enough luggage to go on a two-week European tour? He

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BDSM and Submission: The Five Precepts of Service

This entry is part 9 of 20 in the series Service Submission

This is a guest post by Shahjahani. She is a personal friend of mine and a fantastic educator. I originally heard of these precepts when speaking of death and dying.  I elaborated on them then to help myself understand my place in the death and dying process. I shared my thoughts back then with those that

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – bonimiss

This entry is part 8 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is a post by bonimiss for the Day in the Life Series. I saw luna’s request for a day in the life and was immediately interested but then I hesitated. I fear I suffer from “Not Doing It Right” syndrome but then I thought if I am doing it the way Sir specifies, I

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – DarlingDoll

This entry is part 12 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is part of the A Day in the Life Series. Thanks DarlingDoll! I am a brat. I am a mouthy loud-mouthed impatient bent kinky little brat who has gone through phase after phase to amuse myself with one constant. My Daddy. Together he and I have shared tattoos, shaved heads, pink Mohawk’s, and blue

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A Day in the Life of a Submissive – fuzzyP

This entry is part 15 of 15 in the series A Day in a Submissive's Life

This is a guest post by fuzzyP for the Day in the Life Series. I was asked by luna to write about one of my typical days in service to my Dominant. While that task is straightforward enough, the challenge lies in making one of my typical days entertaining and illuminating for you, the reader.

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